I see you replied again re. rings and stuff. I can see that for your family it must, for reasons that are special to you guys, be important for boys NOT to wear them, which is fine. Whatever works for you; it's your call.
Awwww, I hope you and your babies overcome that sickness soon. I hate it when that happens! I pray the Lord re-energizes your spirit while you sleep tonight. Blessings! (and a quick healing in Jesus' name!)