A Facebook Affair

[Lewis]

Wife having Facebook affair wants husband to foot bills

http://www.freep.com/story/life/adv...ok-affair-husband-pay-bills/78027876/?ref=yfp
My wife renewed an old friendship on Facebook that ended with an affair. Now she wants to be with this guy and regularly visits him for a week at a time. I have moved out and she wants to keep the house and invite him to live with her, but wants me to pay all the household bills until he can move in about six months. Please advise.

 

[Brother Mike]

There are places on the Dark net I heard can take care of these types of issues. Professional job they claim, no mess.

 

[Christ_empowered]

People in and of the world are out for #1...and its been getting worse (personally, I think FB is partly to blame for a rise in seriously, blatanly self-centered behavior).

 

[Knotical]

If this is really happening, then I say absolutely not. Either have her buy you out of your portion of the house, or just sell the house. Of course that depends if both of your names are on the title.

Why should you pay for her infidelity, more than you already are?

 

[Lewis]

If this is really happening, then I say absolutely not. Either have her buy you out of your portion of the house, or just sell the house. Of course that depends if both of your names are on the title.

Why should you pay for her infidelity, more than you already are?

I am with you.

 

[Mike]

This same kinda thing happened to a friend of mine. His parents were married for over 40 years, and his mother hooked up with an old boyfriend from high school. Now they are divorced, and she lives with him in Florida. Two things come to mind when I hear these stories. I can't believe they really think it will be a fairy tale when they move past the affair stage. And I can't believe they don't understand that the same personality trait that led this person into having an affair won't lead them into another with some other person.

I wish there were ways of knowing the true statistics about broken marriages among faithful Christians. I know they break too, but I can't believe the rate is comparable to secular people. My wife and I will have been married for in June, and we were just saying how almost all of our circle of friends have stayed together for similar lengths of time. Facebook is neither good nor bad in and of itself, but I've gotta believe it has given a great many people the opportunity to get drawn deeper into circumstances they wouldn't have otherwise. All the more reason to never take your spouse for granted or leave them feeling less than adored. Most importantly, live out your faith together.

 

[tim-from-pa]

It's amazing how screwed up people are. I mean, the grass is never greener. I'd bet people who can't make a marriage work have problems with other areas of commitment, such as job reliability or friendship issues thus it will happen again. So, it's not the mate, unless you are the recipient of an abusive person or some behavior that's intolerable. But most in these examples seem to be people that up and left. I also love the excuse that a person has to "find themselves", or they are "living a lie". Lame and commonplace statements.

 

[Mike]

I mean to say in my last post that this June, we will have been married for 25 years. While our marriage remains strong, I don't believe we are immune to something unintentional building from an innocent connection on Facebook. It is crucial that wives and husbands never stop making their spouses feel needed, wanted, and special. We should always tend to their spiritual needs and be faithful to our spiritual obligations, but we also cannot neglect their physical and emotional needs. Never let up.

 

[Warrior4Jesus]

There are places on the Dark net I heard can take care of these types of issues. Professional job they claim, no mess.

All joking aside I know of a person who spent years in prison and lost all they had for a joking comment such as this. To make a long story short the other involved met with a questionable fate and the "joke" is the evidence that sealed their fate.