He had hired a summer cottage that was in midst of the most beautiful nature near lake with crystal clear water, and was now in his car on a journey to his paradise. Owner of the cottage had sent him route instructions but, in fact, our friend had some more important to do than to study those, and thus he was not sure if he is finding his way to the cottage at all. But because he really wanted to had his vacation at the cottage, he took a call to the owner of the cottage who said: "I am here near you and if you take me with you and let me drive, I will lead you to the cottage". This was great relief to our friend and he got his summer paradise. Life is like this journey to a summer cottage. If you drive by yourself and decide by yourself the direction and speed then indeed you reach the destination but not that destination you meant. You can not go to good God to live good eternal life after this one, by your own conditions and by neglecting God. Only if you allow God to take control in your life, you will be able to find your way to Him. And already during this life, on you "car ride", you will have a good life in the presence of good God.