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I strongly disagree that courtship isn't necessary. Courtship is how you get to know the other person in a variety of situations and social settings. It's how you get to know the others' family and friends. But even more importantly, it is how your family and friends get to know the other--this is how one should be getting good, spiritual counsel and advice regarding the other person and the relationship.In a class, the conductor tried to have us give our opinions on the subject of courtship.
The pastor who spoke last summarised with the assertion that: You can never know all about a partner. Pray to God for direction, and you shall be fine.
This advice got Hosea a gal named Gomer.You can never know all about a partner. Pray to God for direction, and you shall be fine.
But really, what was Solomon's sin? Marrying heathen women or marrying several women?This advice got Hosea a gal named Gomer.
But, since God was in it I'm confident Hosea had God's grace to endure it to the end. And so it will be for us.
The danger is in going where God does not lead, as was the case with Solomon.
Both, marrying foreign women, and too many of them (300!). And then there was the matter of his concubines (700).But really, what was Solomon's sin? Marrying heathen women or marrying several women?
And he ended up sending her away if I remember correctly.And then Moses married an Ethiopian wife.
I believe God will allow a marriage for the sake of the character development that will be provoked from the chaffing of the two in the relationship. This is, IMO, a form of God's divine direction in marriage too. What these two divinely appointed people need to do is be changed in character so they won't kill each other. That's God's will for them. God's will for marriage does not only exist in good marriages. He has a will for terrible one's too. The problem comes in when one or both in the marriage simply do not want to conform to God's will for them in the relationship.I am witnessing the utter destruction of a marriage due to "divine direction" only.
Maybe I need to make references to that account.Both, marrying foreign women, and too many of them (300!). And then there was the matter of his concubines (700).
And he ended up sending her away if I remember correctly.
And keep in mind that when you courtship with that person. And want to do so with a blossoming relationship. Do so and know that the family will be involved no matter what. Always make great impressions. A first impression could be your last.