Jack Spratt
Member
My wife and I have a difference of opinion on a certain subject. We have been married for 22 years today and almost all of them have been rocky.
The subject is dealing with "love languages". I say that words are cheap if someone asks you to say them compared to you saying them from your heart. It can also be paralleled by saying a gift given by choice is far more of a gift than if someone tells you to get it for you.
One of my wife's love languages is "words of affirmation". She was feeling unloved and told me to tell her some things that make me attracted to her. I told her that "words are cheap" unless they come from the heart and are not just asked of someone. She was offended and said the words are not cheap to her. They are one of her love languages. I argued that.. if I say the words on my own accord they will really mean something but to just ask me to say something to appease her would make them cheap.
What do others think?
The subject is dealing with "love languages". I say that words are cheap if someone asks you to say them compared to you saying them from your heart. It can also be paralleled by saying a gift given by choice is far more of a gift than if someone tells you to get it for you.
One of my wife's love languages is "words of affirmation". She was feeling unloved and told me to tell her some things that make me attracted to her. I told her that "words are cheap" unless they come from the heart and are not just asked of someone. She was offended and said the words are not cheap to her. They are one of her love languages. I argued that.. if I say the words on my own accord they will really mean something but to just ask me to say something to appease her would make them cheap.
What do others think?