Hi everyone...just checking in. My husband and I have been doing well. He's very impressed with the changes I've made. We argue far less often and when we do, we get over it rather quickly. It's just not worth the hassle; I would rather be happy than right. God is working in our lives together. My husband has confided a possible career development in me. I feel honored to be the woman behind the successful man; it means so much that my husband trusts my judgement. He was thinking of going into our retirement fund but I gently reminded my husband that he was recently talking about wanting to put more money into it. It wouldn't make sense to take money out just now as that would be counterproductive. My husband agreed that my opinion made sense. This is exactly what people forget about submission in a marriage; it goes both ways and the head consults with the neck on big decisions. The neck can turn the head anyway she wants.