I don't really know what you mean unless you like someone and are waiting around for them to commit or just be more than friends, but I do know what true love is. Finding someone to marry is not an easy thing to do, but who says you need to? He who marries does good, but he who does not marry does better. I know we all have aspirations in life, but he who wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever gives his life for Jesus will preserve it. Have hope. Have love. Have faith. But the greatest of these is love. Hope that you have something greater than what can be found while we are here. Love God, and everyone else, but hate the world. Have faith that what God says is the truth. The reason I state all these things so blatantly is because the word of God is truth, and we live on it. But despite what I said, it is not wrong to marry someone. But you will have many problems, and God does not want you to be troubled. But he must be a believer.