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  1. Brock

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    Ok so please please tell me what that excuses.
     
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    No...not even close.
     
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    You're making an assumption based on no knowledge. That would be an example of a false accusation. I know you never met my parents for a couple reasons. First, if you had met them, you would know how false your statement above truly is. Second, at 13 years old, both of my parents were deceased before you were born.
     
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    Maybe it would be best to see what God has to say on the subject. There is plenty and here are just a few.

    Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.” Ephesians 6:1-4 NKJV

    Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord. Colassians 3:20 NKJV

    My son, hear the instruction of your father,
    And do not forsake the law of your mother;

    Proverbs 1:8 NKJV

    The eye that mocks a father
    and scorns to obey a mother
    will be picked out by the ravens of the valley
    and eaten by the vultures.

    Proverbs 30:17 NKJV

    “And he who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death." Exodus 21:17 NKJV

    "Every one of you shall revere his mother and his father, and keep My Sabbaths: I am the Lord your God." Leviticus 19:3 NKJV

    “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you." Exodus 20:12 NKJV
     
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    God made her your mom,seeking to form and inspire something in you,not for hate.
     
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    There are a great many a faults with my Dad.he was lazy,at times.he could have been a better dad to us.yet I won't go around telling the world how bad he was.his faults and habits that I have are mine to change,not his and complaining won't change it.I have some of his nature good and bad in me.I don't feel it's right to look at him in that light.once he goes as Is already the case with my grandfather, his dad,I will regret not having more time. My grandfather had ptsd and I'm a vet .if he was alive I could go where no other could have and have that with him.grandpa and myself walked on the same bases in different wars to go to war and to come home.when he died my interest in Blanding history was peaked.I have verified his account of a story about miamI with my aunt. I hold the same rank he did.ssg.his fairness to his men I tried to emulate. Yet he could be verbally abusive. There's much to him that I was to young to see and now it's gone. An imperect man but my grandpa ! I have hurts from his words that still hurt me but I choose to overlook them. I see myself when I look into his stories
     
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    Hi Brock, God looks down on parents that berate or provoke their children, He does not like it either. (Eph. 6:3-4) (Col. 3:20-21) Parents can drive away or distance the closeness that there ought to be as a family unit as God intended. Study the site below, this may give you some encouragement. But one thing you can't expect is to be disobedient with out some sort of chastisement. (reasonable correction)

    Fathers (and Mothers), Do Not Provoke Your Children! - Tim ...
    https://www.challies.com/articles/fathers-and-mothers-do-not...

    Parents, do not provoke your children to anger lest they become discouraged, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. With all of this in place, we are prepared to look at how parents may sinfully, unjustly provoke their children to anger and discouragement. We will turn to that tomorrow.
     
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    Actually she did inspire me when she told me I'll never amount to anything in life it inspired me to follow my dreams and to prove her wrong so maybe you're right but it still doesn't excuse anything that she's done to me.
     
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    So what I'm getting from everyone's posts is that even though a parent treats their child with no respect the kid always has to give respect to their parents at all times.
     
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    Yup.i dont,as an adult,have the right to call my dad names back when he acts the fool.I can simply leave or tell him to go home.
     
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    Wow the way you speak to adults here is rude enough ...
     
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    Respect comes the more one matures (gets older). Did you read post #49 I sent you? Read some of the comment on the web site I sent you. Have you tried to talk to your parents about how you feel?
     
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    Amen.
    The world is so complicated today.
    Kids know more than I knew at 18 years old.
    They need love and encouragement.
    I say the onus is on the adult, not on the child.
    There's so much abuse that goes on and it would be curbed if it was k own that the immediate community would not accept this behavior.
    Acceptance of a behavior makes it legitimate.
    Verbal abuse is as bad as physical abuse.
    The parent should be told to stop...not the child to accept.

    I did say earlier, however, that the child should not talk back unless being falsely accused.
    This just makes matters worse.
     
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    How am I being rude?
     
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    IF you can not re-read your posts and see the rudeness there is no way i can explain it to you...
     
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    See Brock...
    You made good out of an unpleasant situation and worked it to your advantage.
    Romans 8:28
    It's good to know God. He's always at your side.

    The best advice is to treat your parents well.
    Don't listen when Mom is upset toward you.
    All parents love their children, even if they don't know how to show it.
    Forgive them. Especially mom.
    Don't be bitter. Concentrate on the positive.

    What about publ school?
    No good?
     
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    There's only one post in here of mine that I think is rude I don't see what's so bad about the rest.
     
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    Wow ok because that makes total sense.
     
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