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Brock,
Reflecting back, it has everything to do with your male ego, driven, perhaps, unknown,to you, by your increasing production of Testosterone. We have all been trying to move you into introspection that you might be proud of yourself for realizing that what you are going through is driven by the Devil, so much so that it is considered Normal by parents and Medical Staff today.

Believe me, but, only after you go to the Library and research the causes of Prison Recidivism. Prisoner after Prisoner has told me they knew their parents did not love them because they enforced no rules in their Teenage years.

The Truth of the matter is, looking back, as the male and the female, humans reaching 12 or 13 years of age have been schooled ALL of THEIR LIVES and they are so much smarter than the idiots that bore and raised them. I recall this condition existed, in my case, until my early twenties. It was sad and, yet, I was fortunate because I was in the Army and we, the nation,were at war and Iwas in the thick of it.

The last thing I remember about the day I enlisted, two days after I turned seventeen, was my dad, my strict Step-Father, standing outside the window I was seated next to, removing his old fashioned glass Glasses and wiping there tears from his eyes, he really loved me and was scared for me. You will, when you grow up, there go those nasty words I have worked to avoid in this conversation, but when you grow up, you will know your mom and dad, deserve to be written in Caps because they imposed some strict rules on you when growing into Manhood.

it has everything to do with your male ego, driven, perhaps, unknown,to you, by your increasing production of Testosterone

So you're saying it's just teenage attitude?
 
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Don't tell me I don't love and respect God just be because I don't respect my parents. God is the only one who ever cared and understood and he's the only one who's gotten me through this stuff. None of you have helped a bit you just side with my parents like everybody else in this world.
If it's that bad call the state,be prepared to see a new parent as your mom or dad,both might be in jail and you in a foster care until adopted .

What she is saying is wron but we only have your posts to go by and your rudeness.that gives me doubts and I have some of those things said to me by my dad. I know that anger,I have hurts from my teens that I still feel but the devil was lying to me about how bad it was.sure teens can be mean,and I had my ackwardnwas but looking back others had it worse and I wasn't that strange nor disliked.a few classmates committed suicide or died from drink driving. That rage solves nothing .you follow Jesus let God change your mother.

I had plenty of hate of fellow persons in high school .I had to repent. To this day I will not attend a reunion.I will see my 30th in four years.why pay to talk to those I seldom did any way.? Because of my issues I didn't attend prom nor homecoming. I hate dancing as I feel ackwardness that stems from those days.i may change that.

That pattern followed me in basic ,I also learned to be less ackward .what's odd to me now is the millenials doing this I was made fun of for and its normal. Not being able to drive is one,and the other nerd like thongs.

I can choose to be mad ,bothered by all this or simply change.I have my struggle of that at times and I have posted it.there is one in the prayer requests threads.

The hardest time for a man is after high school that trying to find your identity .imho.it sucks.later on to only go throw the mid life crisis.lol
 
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So you're saying it's just teenage attitude?
Not really, having raised a few thirteen year olds, two them, male punks that were working hard to go to prison, I understand where you are coming from. Both of my sons ended up in jail and the younger in the County Pea Farm for six months where one of the real criminals tried to stab him to death with a Shiv made from a tooth brush. I did my best to keep them away from the life I grew up in the middle of, just as I'm trying to turn you toward the Righteous Path where Love is found.

I was raised to be a lying criminal in prison and the only reason I did not end upon Death Row is because I was convinced by Tiny Roman, my Neighborhood Police Officer, that I needed to join the Army and that would turn my life around because I could steal a B. W. T10 Racing Transmission in less than 10 minutes and, in the sixties, sell the $450 tranny for 2 bills before morning. 200 dollars in the late fifties and early sixties was more than any honest man made in a week. That would equate to about $1300 dollars on this economy today, I had money to burn with jus5 ten or fifteen minutes of effort, I was a punk and I have never wanted any youth to follow after my example, not even you, who I do not teach in Church.
 
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My mom thinks she can treat me however she wants because she's the parent. She thinks that she can do whatever she wants because she's the parent and let me tell she's definitely treated me however she wants. I'll just name a few ways she mistreats me. She says she loves me but she's fine with telling me to "shut the f up" and "you'll never amount to anything in life" "you're a dumb*** and thats just the tip of iceberg. But beyond that basically everybody in my family is on her side, even my brothers girlfriend. I'm the one that's always in the wrong they never question her they only question me. And if you want to know how long this has been going on for it started when I was seven and I'm thirteen now so yeah.
Brock, when your Mom say "I love you" then you must have done some that pleased her. Thats a good thing.
Now when she says to shut up ; there is more to this.
Are you getting into trouble outside the home?
are you wanting to go hang out for a longer period than she thinks it is to late to be out ?
are want to be friends with some one she dislikes ?
you and her must be discussing something that upset her then she says shut up.
without knowing some of this it is hard to find the problem to work on.

I've been through very similar things in my child hood. I was told by my Mom several times she hated me and that started around 7 and went from there; like you say thats the tip of my iceburg. So i too have had a rough up bringing.
So think back and see what was going on at the time she is upset and says shut up. maybe one of those conversations might help, can you pick one time and talk about it?
 
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Oh, p.s.
remember please, there is no authority that has not been set in place that is not there because of God.

Romans 13:1-2New American Standard Bible (NASB)
Be Subject to Government
13 Every a]">[a]person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except b]">[b]from God, and those which exist are established by God. 2 Therefore c]">[c]whoever resists authority has opposed the ordinance of God; and they who have opposed will receive condemnation upon themselves.

And remember, please, God gave that lady authority over you for some godly reason. Do things that will please her, little things like showing her godlike respect by carring out the trash before she orders you to and you will be amazed at the love that generates from her. Small things like putting the lid down on the Commode, things that, right now, she has t scream to get you to do.

May God bless your Soul as you seek to learn the truth found in His Word.
 
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Oh, p.s.
remember please, there is no authority that has not been set in place that is not there because of God.

Romans 13:1-2New American Standard Bible (NASB)
Be Subject to Government
13 Every a]">[a]person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except b]">[b]from God, and those which exist are established by God. 2 Therefore c]">[c]whoever resists authority has opposed the ordinance of God; and they who have opposed will receive condemnation upon themselves.

And remember, please, God gave that lady authority over you for some godly reason. Do things that will please her, little things like showing her godlike respect by carring out the trash before she orders you to and you will be amazed at the love that generates from her. Small things like putting the lid down on the Commode, things that, right now, she has t scream to get you to do.

May God bless your Soul as you seek to learn the truth found in His Word.

right now, she has t scream to get you to do.


Don't act like you know me or my family.
 
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Don't act like you know me or my family.
I did explain, during this, testy, conversation that I raised some children. That gives me experience and frpm that comes wisdom, besides which, in the course of speaking to yu tou have told me you dislike when she screams at you. I was, really being observant, just as this next paragraph will be.

You are growing more and more belligerent in your replies as you get familiar with us. Reba tried to reign you in a little but you, just, went off more on her, demonstrating your major issue, quite well, actually. You have authority issues. That is causing you to be antisocial toward people and, likely has lowered your grades in school. Self imposed stress will d0 that to a body. I, sincerely pray that you open your Spiritusl Eyes and Ears and begin to live for more than yourself. With a very small amount of attention, by you, toward social adaptation, this too, shall pass.

Praying for your peace of mind.
 
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I did explain, during this, testy, conversation that I raised some children. That gives me experience and frpm that comes wisdom, besides which, in the course of speaking to yu tou have told me you dislike when she screams at you. I was, really being observant, just as this next paragraph will be.

You are growing more and more belligerent in your replies as you get familiar with us. Reba tried to reign you in a little but you, just, went off more on her, demonstrating your major issue, quite well, actually. You have authority issues. That is causing you to be antisocial toward people and, likely has lowered your grades in school. Self imposed stress will d0 that to a body. I, sincerely pray that you open your Spiritusl Eyes and Ears and begin to live for more than yourself. With a very small amount of attention, by you, toward social adaptation, this too, shall pass.

Praying for your peace of mind.

Again dude you don't know me and you don't know my life. Just because you have raised kids in your life that doesn't mean you automatically know everything about me or any kid.
 
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Brock, when your Mom say "I love you" then you must have done some that pleased her. Thats a good thing.
Now when she says to shut up ; there is more to this.
Are you getting into trouble outside the home?
are you wanting to go hang out for a longer period than she thinks it is to late to be out ?
are want to be friends with some one she dislikes ?
you and her must be discussing something that upset her then she says shut up.
without knowing some of this it is hard to find the problem to work on.

I've been through very similar things in my child hood. I was told by my Mom several times she hated me and that started around 7 and went from there; like you say thats the tip of my iceburg. So i too have had a rough up bringing.
So think back and see what was going on at the time she is upset and says shut up. maybe one of those conversations might help, can you pick one time and talk about it?

How about whenever I ask her to calm down she always tells me to shut the f up then.
 
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