I treat my wife as she tells me otherwise Only joking. I have been married almost 24 years. The only one on my family not to have been divorced apart from my youngest brother but he had so many relationships and three kids as a result that he walked away from. I love my wife deeply. Without her I would be nothing. God gave me the life partner I needed. She says the same about me. We must be doing something right. I would say it's because we put Jesus first in our marriage and our lives. Whilst I will never understand why we think differently, (Men are from a Venus and women from Mars) I have got to know her pretty well and I endeavour to meet her needs and love her like Jesus loves the church. I don't always get it right but when a marriage is Christ centred it makes it a lot easier. She is more content with that. Although the odd ring and jewellery item doesn't go amiss.