Here's the TOS language: 2.8: 2.8: The contents of private conversations with members or staff are to be kept strictly confidential. Staff reserves the right to share private messages among themselves for the purposes of moderation duties. The contents of an ignore list are to be kept strictly confidential including an intent to add a member to an ignore list. In your discussions, do not mention anything about blocking or ignoring anyone or give recommendations to others that they use the ignore function. Such is frowned upon here at CF.net. It generally results in a deleted post and a period of being banned from the thread.