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When is Kissing (romantic) right? (Personal Opinion)
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Blue-Lightning
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I chose "only when a relationship has reached a certain point."
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I chose any time in a romantic relationship.
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silent_angel
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never let it lead to soemthing sinful...i have and it gave me no god at all.
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Germican
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it is fine as long as it doesnt lead to something sinful. When u kiss it shows that you care for eachother.(dont ask me why they picked kissing as a way to show love they just did)
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OnaMission
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when it doesnt lead to something sinful...i picked that because well i dont think just givin someone a little kiss is all that bad, but when ya go futher, umm yeah that can be very bad
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saved4life
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Kissing is prelude to sin. :o 
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It is oral intercourse and what Satan uses to tempt you into choosing the carnal instead of the divine. Pray with your friends, and save kissing for marriage. :evil:
: : It is oral intercourse and what Satan uses to tempt you into choosing the carnal instead of the divine. Pray with your friends, and save kissing for marriage. :evil:
God's Child
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so kissing on the cheek is ok, but kissing on the lips are not?
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God's Child said:
Yes.
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Ayla
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I think that it is okay as long is that is where you are drawing the line. You should never put your relationship with humans before your relationship with God. I have done that and i left me lost in life.
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saved4life
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Ayla said:
It is giving into lust unless it is within marriage. :o
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Sheilagh
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I chose only when it dosent lead to something sinful however personaly what I chose was only in an Engagement. It just always seemed something special to me to wait till you were engaged for a real kiss - you know - its not actualy immoral but I wouldnt really want to share that with anyone I wasnt going to marry, and didnt. Aaron and I didnt kiss till we were engaged - granted that was probly partialy because we really didnt date all that long - we had been best friends since we were 3 but we really only dated for about 2 months but anyway thats not really the point, I just had always said I would wait till I was engaged, not because I thought it was wrong but just cause it was what I wanted to do.
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sethhman
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depends on who your kissing, if your kissing a perosn of the like faith, then it should be ok, because if one wants to go farther, one is there to stop him/her. you see people kiss in public and they dont go farther, they can control, kissing is for mature people that can handle themselves, if you are untrustworthy/untrusted dont do it.
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KiahCat
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I put "When it doesn't lead to something sinful". I kiss my friends all the time when we are leaving or meeting together and it's nothing sexual, just love. I don't have a problem kissing in a relationship because it doesn't seem like any big deal.
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sethhman
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its kinda dumb to say that you shouldnt cuz people will do other things, its like saying playing games will make you go out and shoot people, it rarely happens, but unfortunately, sometimes it does.
atmosphere
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PEOPLE PEOPLE PEOPLE... you are being conflicted with UNIMPORTANT issues. It's SIMPLE! if a kiss feels right then do it. if it feels wrong, then don't. you don't need to ask another HUMAN (key word here) to tell you that one... if it feels right in your heart then it's fine with God, if you're betraying yourself, then you're betraying God too. it's that simple. if me and my girlfriend feel like "making out" then i'm gonna do it. i'm not betraying myself, her, mankind or anyone, therefore, God's not gonna be mad. now, if i'm cheating on my girlfriend (notice i say girlfriend and not "WIFE"...because "marriage" is a whole other debate) then i'm betraying her; i know i am, therefore i'm betraying myself, therefore i am betraying God, therefore pissing Him off. EASY! now, go, be human for God-sakes! and quit asking questions that can only be answered individually in your own heart. your heart won't lie to you!
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Blue-Lightning
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Sometimes, not understanding a dilemna can cause us to choose incorrectly. It is therefore, a good idea if we do not always go completely out on a limb and trust our gut feelings. How many times do coaches make a poor decision based on a gut feeling? And how much more complex is life than a sport?
Concerning all things, check out the human handbook - the Bible.
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Concerning all things, check out the human handbook - the Bible.
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atmosphere
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a football coach and a "gut feeling" is a bad example. they're trying to "predict" what's going to happen. listening to your heart to determine good and bad isn't the same thing. gut instinct and listening to your heart are two seperate things. I'm just saying, asking a person or group of people for an "opinion" is not a good idea, cause everyone has mixed views... all that's gonna do is create confusion for the person who asked the question. when it comes to something as simple as kissing, this is what you do. use 4 of the tools God gave us: 1. prayer 2. listen to your heart (that's how God talks to us) 3. use your free will, and 4. self-control... (don't let it take you places you don't want to go...you'll know where that is. it's different for everyone.)
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Trying to determine what is good and what is bad is trying to predict the consequences also. They are the same thing. The coach is trying to determine the consequences of making a certain decision. Determining what is a good or bad decision involves the same process. Why is having pre-martial sex wrong? It is wrong, regardless of feelings, because it carries the substantial possibility of negative consequences.
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