Why do most modern girls go for sleazebag guys?

[peter33]

i never understood is why its sooo easy for a sleazebag guy to get girls but its always so difficult for nicer guys. not that im perfect, but cmon, girls these days.....its almost like they dont care about nice guys anymore. back in the day they did, but today forget it.they'd rather get beat up by a drunk then just be with someone who cares about them? i mean whats up with girls today? why do they always choose the scumbags? i dont understand.

 

[Caroline H]

Re: Why do most modern girls go for scumbag guys?

Well, when I wasn't living right and was hanging out with non-Christians all the time, I went for scumbags and so did my friends. But when I truly gave God control of my life, and changed my friends, I saw how stupid that was. I would never go for a scumbag anymore, and my friends wouldn't either. As a matter of fact, my husband is definitely a good man who respects women. Maybe it's that you're hanging around the wrong people? I don't know so I won't say that for sure, but it may be something to think about.

 

[jasoncran]

Re: Why do most modern girls go for scumbag guys?

i never understood is why its sooo easy for a sleazbag guy to get girls but its always so difficult for nicer guys. not that im perfect, but cmon, girls these days.....its almost like they dont care about nice guys anymore. back in the day they did, but today forget it.they'd rather get beat up by a drunk then just be with someone who cares about them? i mean whats up with girls today? why do they always choose the scumbags? i dont understand.

Good question? I used to have the reverse of that problem and God's working on me.