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[Caroline:)]

i was reading all the things u have post and wowso interesting, but i was looking for something else, maybe someone that had a similar experience. I am 26 and single. Idint have a lot of relationships, i dot know why, i tried to be a good person and be nice,i am sure i was nice, but then i dont understund why i didnt have any relationship that wouldhave last at least more than 3 moths, iwas never involved in a 4 month (or even more) relationship. Idont know why and i feel sosad about it, i asked God why, why He doesnt send me someone to love, why? I want to share my life with someone and have a family, i really want but i dont have boyfriend and i feel so afraid to stay single for the rest of my life and nver gt married and have kids, from where i am, women do not marry after 26 or 27,they are consider old and I feel so bad for that sometimes I feel theres something worng with me or something but my friends tell me all the time that i am a pretty, intelligent and a good person and that is matter of time but i dont know, i feel bad about it, i dont understund why i dont meet theReal one , pleas pray for me soGod will send me a good christian man.
God bless you all always

 

[KnarfKS]

It is good to pray for a good Christian man, but don't worry about it. God provides in His own time exactly what you need. Too many people rush into relationships because they are lonely and then they are married and they don't even like one another.

Singleness is a blessing. You must understand that first. It gives you freedom to do many things that married people can't do. You can serve God without worrying about your mate.

Pray, wait, serve God and He will provide for you a man who is better than you expect. And definately better than you can find without Him.

Most of us deal with these concerns, but it is just a time that God uses to stregnthen us. Pain builds character and makes one appreciate something when they do receive it.

 

[Blazin Bones]

Good Words KnarfKS.

 

[aiki]

Caroline:

My dear, I am going to be 38 in about a month. I've never been close to being married. I can count the number of girlfriends I've had on one hand. Don't know why I'm still fishing around for a wife, but I am. ONe thing I've come to understand, though: God wants me to be completely satisfied with Him. In fact, the Bible tells me I'm "complete in him (Jesus)". I may want a wife, but I don't need one. All my needs are met in Jesus Christ. It is this truth that has kept me from spontaneously combusting before now. : :-D

Caroline, you need to stop looking at what you don't have as far as a man in your life is concerned and start thanking God for the life you have in Christ. It is in your relationship with the Lord that God intends for you to find fulfillment of your deepest heart longings. I suspect that when you have the kind of relationship with Christ that you ought to two things will happen: 1.) You won't care if you're married or not.
2.) You'll get married.

Keep the faith, sister! :-D

In Christ, Aiki.

 

[Drew]

Hi Caroline:

I got married at age 45 (first time). You have got tons of time. I agree with what the others have written, so I won't repeat. I was quite happy being single - so being single can be great!

 

[Johannes]

I am 20 years old and once came close to being engaged. She wanted to marry me eventually but God interupted, and the relationship came to an end. The hardest thing about this was coming to grips with the fact that GOD has a greater plan for my life. I still must remind myself of that.

Right now I am interested in a girl at my church. I am praying about her in particular, because I see many good qualities in her. She is a girl of strong character. I can also see good things in her sisters; so when they are older, I believe they too will be good candidates. (Rest assured only ONE will be elected.) ;)