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Okay folks' it is like this. The girl that I am going to marry has a mother who is very hateful and mean, and anyone who marries or has a relationship with any of her kids' she hates. She alo likes to keep trouble going and she will even lie if she has to. And she has a very nasty mouth. And at her former church she would even say the wrong things out of her mouth. I have tried my best to get along with this 80 year old lady but it is impossible unless you are kissing her behind' and even then you can't trust her. Some of her kids and other relatives stay away from her because she does not know what to say out of her mouth, and she hates their spouses. She hates all son-in-laws and daughter-in-laws. Paul said in the book of Hebrews to live peaceably with all men if it be at all possible. Notice that word (possible) I am tired of this lady for sure, my wife to be will take up for me but it is futile. So I will at all cost stay away from this evil very evil person. I will not even go to her house anymore she is crazy and I don't need that type of aggravation at 58 years old. There now I have vented.
 
Lewis W said:
Okay folks' it is like this. The girl that I am going to marry has a mother who is very hateful and mean, and anyone who marries or has a relationship with any of her kids' she hates. She alo likes to keep trouble going and she will even lie if she has to. And she has a very nasty mouth. And at her former church she would even say the wrong things out of her mouth. I have tried my best to get along with this 80 year old lady but it is impossible unless you are kissing her behind' and even then you can't trust her. Some of her kids and other relatives stay away from her because she does not know what to say out of her mouth, and she hates their spouses. She hates all son-in-laws and daughter-in-laws. Paul said in the book of Hebrews to live peaceably with all men if it be at all possible. Notice that word (possible) I am tired of this lady for sure, my wife to be will take up for me but it is futile. So I will at all cost stay away from this evil very evil person. I will not even go to her house anymore she is crazy and I don't need that type of aggravation at 58 years old. There now I have vented.
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You made a good choice to separate yourself from her.


JLB
 
I agree with JLB, Lewis W ... you have made a good choice to separate yourself from her. There are just some people in this world like her; I will never understand why people like her choose to live like that.
 
AirDancer said:
I agree with JLB, Lewis W ... you have made a good choice to separate yourself from her. There are just some people in this world like her; I will never understand why people like her choose to live like that.
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my mother in law the mother of my wife, not my fil's second wife, is like that.i refer to her as the witch of Cherokee mountain.
 
AirDancer said:
Life is just too short to spend it trying to making others - and herself - so miserable. So sad.
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in my old age,lol. I have learned that its a choice to be bitter. we all we be hurt but its our choice on how long we let it last and to heal.
 
Yes reba that is what I have been doing' and Jason' yes it takes work to hate' you have to work at it' and let it fester and grow. She is always talking about being a Christian. She has to be one of the most evil Christians that I have ever met. She is the kind of person who will act close to you and then stab you in the back' or she will let you know to your face that she is going to stab you while you are watching. I never want to deal with a person like that again in life. She calls her kids vulgar names and she raised them wrong a lot of cussing and fighting yo name it.
 
I think you should stay away from her as much as possible. If you need to be with her for the sake of your spouse, r\then be polite and brief and noncommittal
in discussions. Your mother in law may change but it's unlikely. It's your own woman you love, so care for her, protect her from her family, nurture your precious relationship with her.
 
Oh reba go have a cigar.. :wave people like to be mean because its easier to be mean did you know it takes more muscles to smile than it does to frown go tell her she's been taking the easy way out all of her life and see what she says.. Best way to deal with her is to be truthful don't be nice when she knows you don't mean it. Tell her with God you can always start fresh like yesterday never happened.. usually mean and nasty anger stems from a guilty conscience.. then stick out your hand and say lets get off to a fresh start.. She'll either grab a frying pan or shake your hand..

tob
 
A personal story about my M-i-l...
We were at her home... She was ragging on my parents.... our kids ..her son.... you name it ... it was about the 25 year of this...I was at the kitchen sink...she at the table having another glass of crabby juice (wine) .... I turned to rip her for all the years of verbal abuse to all of us ... All the anger that had built up over the years was at the top.... I turned with all the raging sin i had and God blessed me with a vision... instead of drunk old bad word.. i saw a baby bird trying to break out of its shell ..still kinda wet... translucent ...so vulnerable .. so weak ... so helpless .... I held my tongue.... and thanked God for keeping me from verbally killing her... IF i could relive life i would set the rules in 1964 . establish who was who... don't live in that trap Lewis .. and dont let her sin become your sin...
 
The good thing is that Juanita agrees' and she knows how her mother is. She has been telling her mother to leave me alone for almost 5 years now. But being a Christian who has been one since 1991 I should know to take the high road. God has given me the gift of discernment that is why when I meeet people in person I can pretty much read them' I didn't ask for it' but He gave it to me. And I read her pretty much shortly after I met her before she even showed showed out.
 
Well this crazy woman prayed with me and my fiancee last week' and in a couple of days she was back to hate again. This woman want's control. She even threw salt years ago into my fiancee's old boyfriend's eyes in his own apartment. So you guy's can see that I am dealing with a nut. And she keeps telling my fiancee that I don't love her. It's good thing that Juanita knows how her mother is. Now there I have vented again.
 
Their is enough grief in this world without having to deal with people like that.It is sad that your fiancee had a mother like that.How does she feel about her mom?How does she feel about you never stepping foot in her house?That says alot about many Christians of today.
 
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