After my first and only child was born, my husband decided to get a vasectomy. I was not too happy because I wanted another child, but he said the world is already over populated and if I really wanted another kid we could adopt. A week before his vasectomy I found out I had gotten pregnant again! I was so happy, but my husband was crushed. He wanted me to get an abortion and convinced me that I had no other choice, because it would have conflicted with our future plans of graduating college and moving to another state. I did take the abortion pill and I regret it everyday! I blame my husband but I know it is my fault, I let this happen. Now I am having a hard time forgiving him. I am having trouble being attracted to him anymore, and I have thought about leaving him. I have no problem with adopting a child, but he does not want anymore kids. I never pictured only having one kid. I don't know if this has been the route of all of our problems lately or not, but I could really use some Godly advice.