Gf lives with roommates. Privacy issues?

[imakeyouhappy10]

I’m kind of bothered with my current situation, you guys. A few months ago, I met my girlfriend through a romance tour. After my trip, me and my girl kept in touch and eventually, we got into a relationship. Now, the thing that’s been bothering me is the fact that she lives in a apartment which is shared with her and her friends.


Being in a long distance relationship, I get that communication is important but how can I talk to her privately if her roommates are constantly in the picture? I’m getting to the point of getting annoyed but I don’t really know how to bring this up with my girlfriend. She might not like the fact that I have a problem with her friends always being there when we talk.


I just really want to get this off my chest and find a way to deal with this in a good way. Has anyone tried this before cause I really need some advice on how I can handle this situation. Help me out here, fellas. I just want to talk to my girlfriend privately because there are alot of things I can’t say in front of her roommates! Any suggestions and comments would do! Please!

 

[Mike]

Hi imakeyouhappy10

It doesn't sound like you meet the criteria to post in the Parenting & Marriage Forum, as you're supposed to be either of those. I'm not trying to be the CFnet police, but you will likely get a better response if you post in the Young Adult Forum. Members with current like experience might not even check here or post here with the stated rules.

BTW, assuming your girlfriend has similar feelings for you and your relationship, I can't imagine she'd have a problem with you wanting to have more intimate conversations that don't have background noise and listeners. She probably would prefer this at times, too. I don't understand why you feel this would be inferred that you don't like her roomies. That would bother me, too.