Hello, I'm new here and I've come to search for some advice.
I've recently broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years (me 22 her 21)and although it's against the christnian religion, we have had sex.
Neither one of our mothers approved, when they found out since our mom's are Christian women and believe in no sex before marriage.
But anyway, we broke up for the reasons that my ex didn't love herself. She says she recently started having really bad thoughts of causing self harm to herself. So after an argument, she broke with me under the basis that she needs to find herself and love herself.
We both haven't been living a life of a Christian during our time, my life style was not that of a Christian man and I believe I may have strayed her off her path.
Yesterday my mom saw me in pain and decided to do a prayer for me, she asked God to help me and her in our lives.
I'm not saying that God spoke to me during that moment, but a thought came into my head to offer her a flower and a companionship into god.
Basically to give up my old lifestyle and go with her into the church and be honest Christians.
I love this girl and only want the best for her, but currently she's confused on what she wants...
I'm not to sure what I should do at this point , whether or not I should peruse her....
I've recently broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years (me 22 her 21)and although it's against the christnian religion, we have had sex.
Neither one of our mothers approved, when they found out since our mom's are Christian women and believe in no sex before marriage.
But anyway, we broke up for the reasons that my ex didn't love herself. She says she recently started having really bad thoughts of causing self harm to herself. So after an argument, she broke with me under the basis that she needs to find herself and love herself.
We both haven't been living a life of a Christian during our time, my life style was not that of a Christian man and I believe I may have strayed her off her path.
Yesterday my mom saw me in pain and decided to do a prayer for me, she asked God to help me and her in our lives.
I'm not saying that God spoke to me during that moment, but a thought came into my head to offer her a flower and a companionship into god.
Basically to give up my old lifestyle and go with her into the church and be honest Christians.
I love this girl and only want the best for her, but currently she's confused on what she wants...
I'm not to sure what I should do at this point , whether or not I should peruse her....