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Male leadership

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How do the women here react to the idea of male leadership in dating and in marriage?
That women tend to avoid men who have strong, exclusive views on moral questions and spiritual questions. The minute a man expresses a moral point of view or a theological argument, women tend to want to avoid him. Sometimes they fear rejection from men with definite convictions. Sometimes they resent male leadership. And there are other reasons to avoid strong men. The problem is that a man who has definite moral views is exactly the kind of man who is likely to be trustworthy and predictable in the marriage. And a man who has definite spiritual views is exactly the kind of man who is going to have some sort of overarching plan for the marriage (AND PARENTING) beyond mere pleasure. You wouldn’t choose someone who was guided by hedonism to be your stock broker or your medical doctor, because doing a hard job requires self-sacrifice and discipline. The same rule applies to choosing husbands. Husbands have duties that are typically best performed by moral, spiritual men.

Taken from the very end of this post:-
https://winteryknight.com/2018/12/29/new-study-men-and-women-have-different-goals-and-expectations-when-cohabitating-2/
 

medievalglo

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I had just posted some of my thoughts regarding this on another post.... I'll see if I can lead you to the post.
 

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