LaMexicana
Member
So for a while now I've been wondering what's wrong with me. I think I have set a record for being the most rejected in the shortest amount of time. Then after observing my social circle and people in general, I've realized I'm one of the most normal, stable, and non-psycho (and funniest I should add) in my circle if not in society. So what's going on with all the rejection? Well, this is the conclusion I came to:
People, for the most part, go for people that are convenient. They date/marry/hang out with those who "fit" into their lives at that moment in time despite the fact that the person might be a complete nutso. I'm not saying this is true in all cases. I believe there is true love and soul mates and things that are "meant to be" but I think in general, people don't like to work for things. Now, I'm not saying I'm a complete burden but my free time is limited. And why is it limited? Because I have a kid that takes up most of that time. So a kid plus limited free time? I'm thinking men look at me and say no thanks. I don't have baby-daddy drama, I have a good job, a car, I'm bilingual, good head on my shoulders (and vain apparently) so in general I'm a pretty good catch. But the fact that I don't have all the free time and attention in the world to bestow upon someone seems to be a hindrance which is pretty pathetic. Are people THAT needy? They prefer to put up with crazies that smother them rather than invest time with a stable, independent person? It’s pretty baffling to me. But that is my theory and so I have officially given up any attempts in finding anyone because even though there are exceptions to the rule, they are very rare.
People, for the most part, go for people that are convenient. They date/marry/hang out with those who "fit" into their lives at that moment in time despite the fact that the person might be a complete nutso. I'm not saying this is true in all cases. I believe there is true love and soul mates and things that are "meant to be" but I think in general, people don't like to work for things. Now, I'm not saying I'm a complete burden but my free time is limited. And why is it limited? Because I have a kid that takes up most of that time. So a kid plus limited free time? I'm thinking men look at me and say no thanks. I don't have baby-daddy drama, I have a good job, a car, I'm bilingual, good head on my shoulders (and vain apparently) so in general I'm a pretty good catch. But the fact that I don't have all the free time and attention in the world to bestow upon someone seems to be a hindrance which is pretty pathetic. Are people THAT needy? They prefer to put up with crazies that smother them rather than invest time with a stable, independent person? It’s pretty baffling to me. But that is my theory and so I have officially given up any attempts in finding anyone because even though there are exceptions to the rule, they are very rare.