ok you are in the midst of an argument with a loved one. (Yes arguments do occur between loved ones!).
In the heat of the moment you are tempted to bring up a negative event from the past.
"It just reminds me of the time you ..........".
I've done it and it's happened to me as well.
not a good idea I know but oh so tempting.
Still that negative event is in our head. We still hold a grudge maybe?
Is it ever appropriate to raise the topic of that event when both of you have calmed down?
Or forgive and forget and move on.
The second option?
Ok thanks
In the heat of the moment you are tempted to bring up a negative event from the past.
"It just reminds me of the time you ..........".
I've done it and it's happened to me as well.
not a good idea I know but oh so tempting.
Still that negative event is in our head. We still hold a grudge maybe?
Is it ever appropriate to raise the topic of that event when both of you have calmed down?
Or forgive and forget and move on.
The second option?
Ok thanks