Oh yea. Back to topic.I was just wondering something. If a man or a woman is dating somebody or engaged, is it or should it be alright to hug another person of the opposite sex and or kiss them on the cheek?
The only female who hugs me apart from my mother is a young woman who just turned 20. The first time I met her I sat down next to her and said hello and she said nothing and got up and walked away and wouldn't talk to me. She was probably terrified of me . Lol. I said to myself she will love me one day (friendly).
Now she runs and jumps on me and throws her arms around me and cannot stop hugging me when she sees me because now she knows me. Probably because over time she realised im not a sick perverted old man who wanted to hook up like every young guy she meets does, including all the old men who try get a bit and ask for her number. I was just being friendly.
I don't look at her sexually or as more than a friend or would ever try anything on her even she is amazingly stunning and every guy seems to want her. She just needs to stop flirting so much with guys as she is young and overwhelmed. She
is half my age, young enough to be my daughter, and very immature so there is obviously no connection. I take her fishing. We are going this weekend as she wants me to take her. She is like a sister to me. A sister I never had that is annoying but i care for.
It is comforting that someone, a beautiful young woman is not afraid of me. I need a hug sometimes. I'm a lonely dude so a hug can mean so much to someone like me. A 38yo single depressed dude.
On a side not it's not the same person I was talking about earlier in this thread.