That is besides the fact that God planned for it to happen from the very beginning that is. Is there an actual scientific reason for this?
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Besides God and the spiritual aspect, and hormones and their scientific aspect, for what reason scientifically do people fall in love? Well I'm not a scientist, nor have I ever played one on tv, but I have always liked people and girls in particular so I have been paying attention and know somewhat of what you speak.
That said, The potential exists for any man to fall in love with any woman. Any woman could potentially fall in love with any man given the right set of circumstances. The snowflake of what gets this avalanche of love rolling is within the person and heart. How much do you think about this person.
When you meet someone that is appealing to you you get drawn to think about them. The more you think about this person, the more you see within them. The more you see will lead to the more that you like about them. This leads to even more thought.
(ok, this man secret will cost you 2 dollars to Happy dude at my PO Box): It is said that when first beginning to date a girl and getting to know them...to not say too much. Be kind of mysterious. Because the girls strong imagination will fill in the holes about you and she will build you up in her mind better than I ever could!
So your answer is how much thinking you do about them is what happens to make you fall in love.
Studying hormones has a lot of scientific study into it actually. Neural transmitters in the brain also. Either way I've heard that love (and falling in love) is a chemical soup (hormones and neural transmitters) our body produces that creates a foundation for people to create a lasting relationship on. Basically a kind of "blind love" that you see people ignore or not notice annoying habits and imperfections of the other person because they are "in love."
What I've heard is this falling in love thing is short lived, and if they made a lasting relationship while in the "in love" phase, then it'll turn into real lasting love that can notice the imperfections of another person and love them anyways. (Because they have that relationship they developed as the foundation).
That said, regardless of scientific mumbojumbo, Edward said the why and how better then science, because how you get those hormones draws on paying attention to the other person and thinking about them.
Studying hormones has a lot of scientific study into it actually. Neural transmitters in the brain also. Either way I've heard that love (and falling in love) is a chemical soup (hormones and neural transmitters) our body produces that creates a foundation for people to create a lasting relationship on. Basically a kind of "blind love" that you see people ignore or not notice annoying habits and imperfections of the other person because they are "in love."
What I've heard is this falling in love thing is short lived, and if they made a lasting relationship while in the "in love" phase, then it'll turn into real lasting love that can notice the imperfections of another person and love them anyways. (Because they have that relationship they developed as the foundation).
That said, regardless of scientific mumbojumbo, Edward said the why and how better then science, because how you get those hormones draws on paying attention to the other person and thinking about them.
Ok, so when it was just the one girl and man, she was getting his attention. But she did not want it. But after they introduced the 2nd girl into the mix, he gave the 2nd girl his attention, thereby she lost what she now considers to be hers so the 2nd girl had what was hers and she began missing it and wanted it back.
Was is jealousy? Control? She began wanting what he had (him and his attention) and desiring it. Make sense now?