My oldest son is almost one. he did 21 years in jail, and he has that what has God ever done for me attitude. Now his wife is a born again Christian. The only thing that I can do is pray for him. He has been home almost 3 years and has a lovely new wife had a wedding that cost almost 15 to 20,000 bucks, a nice job just got a SUV lives in his mother in-laws duplex and all he has to do is pay for electric and gas. So he can't tell me that God is not looking out for him, or is it because of his wife, that God is looking out ? When he was in jail he would tell us don't mention God to him and when he got out his sister who is a born again Christian, was talking to him about God and he went off on her, and I had to get with him about that as well as my mother. Now my other son is a born again Christian.