Help me get back

[mary m]

Hi, I need prayer. I’ve been through a painful breakup and in the process, I drifted far from God. I let myself compromise my faith, skipped church, and even considered changing my religion for a relationship. Now I feel broken, lonely, and spiritually lost. I want to come back to God, find healing for my heart, and reconnect with a godly community. Please pray for me, that I find strength, restoration, and guidance to walk in His ways again.
I don't feel like doing anything
I can't focus in my job, he even moved on and I'm stuck

 

[JLB]

Hi, I need prayer. I’ve been through a painful breakup and in the process, I drifted far from God. I let myself compromise my faith, skipped church, and even considered changing my religion for a relationship. Now I feel broken, lonely, and spiritually lost. I want to come back to God, find healing for my heart, and reconnect with a godly community. Please pray for me, that I find strength, restoration, and guidance to walk in His ways again.
I don't feel like doing anything
I can't focus in my job, he even moved on and I'm stuck

Praying for you.

Glad you are here. Welcome.

We all have done similar things and I’m here to tell you that God loves you and wants you to be close to Him.

He never left you.


Just tell Him what’s already in your heart. He is waiting…


Be blessed and welcome home.

 

[friend of]

Hey welcome. Maybe God removed that relationship because it was drawing you away from Him. Keep seeking Him daily in the Word and don't give up, He loves you

 

[Fish153]

Hi, I need prayer. I’ve been through a painful breakup and in the process, I drifted far from God. I let myself compromise my faith, skipped church, and even considered changing my religion for a relationship. Now I feel broken, lonely, and spiritually lost. I want to come back to God, find healing for my heart, and reconnect with a godly community. Please pray for me, that I find strength, restoration, and guidance to walk in His ways again.
I don't feel like doing anything
I can't focus in my job, he even moved on and I'm stuck

Mary---

It's a story everyone knows---but read Luke 15:11-31. Just know that every step you take back towards God, He is taking two steps towards you. He loves you dearly.

 

[Blain DeCastro]

Hi, I need prayer. I’ve been through a painful breakup and in the process, I drifted far from God. I let myself compromise my faith, skipped church, and even considered changing my religion for a relationship. Now I feel broken, lonely, and spiritually lost. I want to come back to God, find healing for my heart, and reconnect with a godly community. Please pray for me, that I find strength, restoration, and guidance to walk in His ways again.
I don't feel like doing anything
I can't focus in my job, he even moved on and I'm stuck

I know the pain you are going through it is not a kind of pain that just goes away but maybe it was God wanting you to forget the relationship you were in to bring you closer to him and in turn bring you to the right kind of relationship

I always find that if we seek God first then everything else will be given to us I am so sorry for your pain it is something my heart knows very well

 

[Blain DeCastro]

Hi, I need prayer. I’ve been through a painful breakup and in the process, I drifted far from God. I let myself compromise my faith, skipped church, and even considered changing my religion for a relationship. Now I feel broken, lonely, and spiritually lost. I want to come back to God, find healing for my heart, and reconnect with a godly community. Please pray for me, that I find strength, restoration, and guidance to walk in His ways again.
I don't feel like doing anything
I can't focus in my job, he even moved on and I'm stuck

Beloved one,
The Lord has seen your tears — not one has fallen unnoticed.
He has walked beside you in the silence of your pain,
and even when you felt unseen, He was holding you closer than you knew.


You are not forgotten.
You are not forsaken.
You are not too far gone.


The cracks in your heart are not signs of failure —
they are the places where His light is breaking through.
The pain you carry has not disqualified you;
it has prepared you to know the depths of His compassion.
For the Lord is near to the brokenhearted,
and He binds up every wound with the tenderness of His hands.


He whispers to you now:

“My child, I am not finished with your story.
What the enemy meant for ruin, I will weave into redemption.
I will make beauty rise from your ashes,
and songs of joy will bloom where sorrow once grew.”

Do not despise your season of healing—
for in this hidden place, your roots are growing deeper.
You are learning the rhythm of His heart,
and He is shaping you into a vessel of mercy and strength.


Soon, the dawn will break again.
The heaviness will lift.
And you will see — the same God who allowed your heart to shatter
is the One who will piece it back together,
stronger, softer, and shining with His love.


So rest, beloved.
Lay your burdens down in His hands.
The Lord who weeps with you is also the Lord who will raise you up.
You will not leave this valley empty—
you will rise carrying joy, healing, and a testimony of His faithfulness.


“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18

 

[Spirit & Truth]

Hi, I need prayer. I’ve been through a painful breakup and in the process, I drifted far from God. I let myself compromise my faith, skipped church, and even considered changing my religion for a relationship. Now I feel broken, lonely, and spiritually lost. I want to come back to God, find healing for my heart, and reconnect with a godly community. Please pray for me, that I find strength, restoration, and guidance to walk in His ways again.
I don't feel like doing anything
I can't focus in my job, he even moved on and I'm stuck

My dear Sister,
I've starred this mountain in the face. If you ever want to talk, just reach out.
Some things that helped me were
1) taking the person and anyone that was tied to it, to the alter and praying for their souls, their salvation, for God to give me His attributes, especially forgiveness.
2) realizing forgiveness is different than the pain. You have to lay both down.
3) ask God for peace that surpasses all understanding.
4) if you don't have one already, build yourself a prayer closet.
5) take this time to let God love you. Often times we think we are letting him, and He just doesn't hear us.... But really, we struggle to accept what real love is through His eyes and therefore we aren't truly accepting it because we don't know what it looks like. Study Love with Him. Let Him show you what it means in His eyes, not the world's or even yours from past experience.

I don't know you, so if this is all stuff you know and do, please forgive me for chiming in unnecessarily.

I love you and I am always here if you want to pray together, read together or talk. Peace be with you My beautiful Sister.

Elli

 

[mary m]

My dear Sister,
I've starred this mountain in the face. If you ever want to talk, just reach out.
Some things that helped me were
1) taking the person and anyone that was tied to it, to the alter and praying for their souls, their salvation, for God to give me His attributes, especially forgiveness.
2) realizing forgiveness is different than the pain. You have to lay both down.
3) ask God for peace that surpasses all understanding.
4) if you don't have one already, build yourself a prayer closet.
5) take this time to let God love you. Often times we think we are letting him, and He just doesn't hear us.... But really, we struggle to accept what real love is through His eyes and therefore we aren't truly accepting it because we don't know what it looks like. Study Love with Him. Let Him show you what it means in His eyes, not the world's or even yours from past experience.

I don't know you, so if this is all stuff you know and do, please forgive me for chiming in unnecessarily.

I love you and I am always here if you want to pray together, read together or talk. Peace be with you My beautiful Sister.

Elli

Thank you so much sister I'm in tears reading this, I legit thought I had no one to share all of my burdens but now I think I found a sister in Christ
Thank you.
God bless you.

 

[for_his_glory]

Hi mary m and welcome to CF

Breakups can be so hard no matter how old you are. When one door closes it is for a good reason that we may not always understand, but if we trust in God, instead of running away from Him, as I have done many times in my life, God always has our best interest and wants to give us His best for us. Never settle, but let God put that right man in your life where Jesus will be the center of your relationship. You are in my prayers.

 

[watchman]

Sister mary m thank you for being so open about what you’re going through. Heartbreak can shake a person to their core, and there’s no shame in admitting that the weight has been heavy. What you’re feeling the loneliness, the loss of direction, the struggle to focus, it’s all part of carrying a wound that went deeper than you expected.

But I want you to understand: you’re not beyond God’s reach, and you’re not stuck forever. Even when we drift, He never stops watching over us. The fact that you desire to come back to him already shows that his hand is still on your life. He doesn’t condemn you for stumbling; he welcomes you back with mercy and strength.

I’ll be praying that the Lord breathes peace into your heart, steadies your mind, and gives you the courage to take each step forward, even the small ones. You don’t have to rush healing; just keep leaning toward him, even if you feel weak. He restores in ways we can’t see yet.

As for moving on, I know that hurts deeply, but that doesn’t mean your story is finished. Sometimes God allows certain doors to close so he can lead us toward something healthier and more aligned with his love for us. In time, you’ll see that you weren’t left behind, you were being kept for something better.

Stay close to the Lord, sister. Healing is coming, and you’re not walking this alone. Lifting you up in prayer.

Brother watchman

 

[Spirit & Truth]

Sister mary m thank you for being so open about what you’re going through. Heartbreak can shake a person to their core, and there’s no shame in admitting that the weight has been heavy. What you’re feeling the loneliness, the loss of direction, the struggle to focus, it’s all part of carrying a wound that went deeper than you expected.

But I want you to understand: you’re not beyond God’s reach, and you’re not stuck forever. Even when we drift, He never stops watching over us. The fact that you desire to come back to him already shows that his hand is still on your life. He doesn’t condemn you for stumbling; he welcomes you back with mercy and strength.

I’ll be praying that the Lord breathes peace into your heart, steadies your mind, and gives you the courage to take each step forward, even the small ones. You don’t have to rush healing; just keep leaning toward him, even if you feel weak. He restores in ways we can’t see yet.

As for moving on, I know that hurts deeply, but that doesn’t mean your story is finished. Sometimes God allows certain doors to close so he can lead us toward something healthier and more aligned with his love for us. In time, you’ll see that you weren’t left behind, you were being kept for something better.

Stay close to the Lord, sister. Healing is coming, and you’re not walking this alone. Lifting you up in prayer.

Brother watchman

We Haven't seen her since the 18 th of Oct. Keep praying for you though.

 

[watchman]

We Haven't seen her since the 18 th of Oct. Keep praying for you though.

Spirit & Truth, I understand. I’ll keep holding her up in prayer. She’s walking through a hard season, and I’m trusting God to meet her in it, bring her peace, and guide her steps. My heart stands with her before the Lord, believing He will surround her with His strength and comfort.

 

[Spirit & Truth]

Spirit & Truth, I understand. I’ll keep holding her up in prayer. She’s walking through a hard season, and I’m trusting God to meet her in it, bring her peace, and guide her steps. My heart stands with her before the Lord, believing He will surround her with His strength and comfort.

Yes, me too. I was converting with her privately for awhile. I was just encouraging you to keep praying and hopefully we hear from her again. She is a very sweet soul.