Whether people call themselves trinitarians or unitarians, and whether they treat Sunday or Sabbath - they do it for the Lord. If some doctrines make people closer to God, that is great.
We must search and know the scriptures as well as we possibly can so that when confronted with various doctrines, we can see if those teachings are consistant with the revealed will of our God. It matters what we believe and teach and we must realize that we cannot go go with whatever feels good if our goal is to be pleasing to our great God.
I do not have issues with the doctrines, they just do not reside in my heart. You see?.
I am not totally following you here. Are you saying that sound doctrine is nothing if its proponents are hypocrites that do not live by what they promote or are you saying something different?