Interesting subject. What are our rights to understand another and be critical? A lot of society runs on praise and put downs. We must conform to certain standards or interactions or face rejection. What is often not understood is in mature relationships how we handle others are indicators of the person inside, not actually that important, but of value for the discerning to grasp what matters in life and experience. Jesus talked of committing adultery, but pointed out the intention of the heart leads to adultery and distorts what is approved of and what is faked. So adultery is only adultery if you get caught, while flirting and testing out others, is perfectly acceptable.
I had a work friend who indulged in looking at strangers, women, and imagining sex with them, and said if I commented on his behaviour that was being judgemental. For me he had corrupted himself with self indulgence, and was assaulting the women in an abusive way, which dishonoured them and himself. I talked with him about desire and if a woman offered herself without conditions would I take that up. I said no, because I honoured my wife and myself. He confessed I was the first man he had met who had said that.
The lack of love and corruption of intimate relationships which are the bedrock of family and commitment, is so destructive yet money, loneliness, and desire seem for many to be stronger that knowing love and true connection.
So for me this is how I make a judgement on the situation, and warn they folk they are destroying the very foundation of what makes us loving caring people. God bless