The Christian Marriage Bed
Are you confused about what's permissible in your bedroom and what is not? Christian sex is a very important element to a Christian marriage. However many Christians are frustrated. I believe a candid conversation about the Christian marriage bed between men and women is needed to help each other.
Clarify what your on about. Frustrated for what? I don't have time to shag the wife as much? Things might not be so romantic after 20 years of marriage?
What is the topic about................... Confused about what is permissible in the bedroom? Like I have to stop tying the wife up so I can play more video games?
Frustrated and fantasy are related how? Upset the wife is not that great an actor?
Example: is husband and wife roleplaying fantasies a sin? What are your godly views.
I don't know what the thread is about, but this comment. Role playing fantasies........................... The wife is a reality, a real person that I am instructed to treat as Christ loves the Church. There is no fantasy in that but what is real.
Anything in my mind that would make believe my wife is someone else, like her Sister or some dominatrix, Bugs Bunny, whatever already puts me in disobedience of not casting down every thought and imagination, bringing it in to obedience to Christ Jesus.
Like Guys telling me they masturbate but they only think about the wife is an excuse to give place to the flesh not knowing their body is not their own but one flesh with the wife and belongs to God who sanctified the marriage bed for the two that are one. There needs to be understanding that any place for the flesh, even to the having that extra piece of cake is not a good thing but leads to other things.
Mike.
