TAKE A STAND FOR THE TRUTH!
Please do not waver, else truth be lost!
Be blunt and truthful! This is not a matter to take lightly or ignore!
Talk to him about the truth of the meaning of the word sodomite.
Ask him what if someone called him a sodomite? Would he still consider
that to be okay?
Being gay and being a sodomite is no different. Tell him to not ignore the
truth of it!
Sodomy is an abomination in the eyes of God. And for good reason!
It ruins a persons life! That lifestyle has the highest suicide rate and
many of them are severely depressed people. They think turning gay will
solve their problems, but it only makes it worse for them.
He needs to get help before he gets pulled into a life style that only
confuses truth and deceives more and more as time goes on. It robs a
person of truth about what God intended for us in relationship to each
other.
He needs to learn about the truth about what being a sodomite really is
and does to a person the more they get pulled into that deceptive life
style.
Sodomy is ungoldy and a sin. Get help for him quick! And yes! people
should be against same sex relationships! Why would you think it is okay
to do such a thing? It is totally against all that God intended for us. It
defies the truth of what man a woman stand for in a loving relationship.
Ask him to please reconsider his thoughts and find the root cause of why
he thinks it okay to be a sodomite. Do not use the word gay to him. And
if you lose him because he insists on being a gay then what friend was he
in the first place? You are trying to help him not make an enemy out of
him. He needs to learn beforehand, the REAL TRUTH of what that life
style is all about! It is like being a drug or a sex addict. It is not healthy.
It is destructive!
You come to a Christian place for help... If you want
to Trust in the Holy Word of God, you must learn it and know it! And stand
by it and live by it! else, you be decieved instead.
Ask him if he wants to spit in the face of Jesus and deny the truth of the
Holy Word of God. If he is any kind of Christian, he will reconsider and
not act like those who defiled the Holy word of God as thos who did in
Sodom and Gomorrah. History still stand true! The bible is full of lessons
about fornication and sexual sin and the damage it does to self and others
involved. If he wants to sin like that God will not stop him. God will only
be there for Him when he TURNS AWAY FROM SIN and LOOKS TO GOD'S
HOLY Word for salvation from that sin. You have to understand that you
can't sin like that and still consider yourself as living IN the Spirit of Christ.
How can you sin if you are focused on the life that is sinless. Being IN the
Spirit of Christ takes lots of determination and trust in the HOLY Word not
the SIN FILLED LIES OF THE Deceiver!
I don't mean to scare you or be so blatant. But the truth is that IF he
choses to go sodomite he will be headed down the wrong road!
Please understand this, the devil comes disguised as an angel of light and
if you don't have the Holy word of Christ Jesus in you you will be deceived
and fall for that trap of sin. You will get snared by that trap.
See if you can help him out of that type of thinking.
There are plenty of organizations that can help him out of it before it
takes the course of destruction on him. Can you and him attend church
together? What state are you in? Maybe you can find a good bible
believing church that has a good program for preventing homosexual
behavior. Maybe someone here is close to your area and they can help
you find a good church. Don't give out too much personal information to
anyone. Just ask for a list of churches in your area and that should be
enough for you to go on. Maybe you and your friend can find a good
church together.
Do some research and help him see the truth. Ask him to be
open enough to do research about that life style before he jumps head
into it and it does aweful damage to himself.
I don't know how old you are, but here are some articles about teens and
homosexuality and also, some other ones for all ages and adults.
http://search.family.org/query.cfm?qt=homosexuality+and+teens&style=family
Give him books to read!
Coming Out of Homosexuality
Heres a book for you to read:
Helping People Step Out of Homosexuality
There are over 697 articles and resources for you and him to read
together. Please, be open enough to educate yourselves about this!
Ask him to be open enough to understand the other side of the coin!
It Just may be
the REAL TRUTH about that life style!
Help him before it's too late!
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Note: The following section may contain links to external Web sites.
Referrals to sites not produced by Focus on the Family are for
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Are people born gay?
Shouldn't we be tolerant of
everyone? Can people change? Should they?
Amidst the barrage of questions, we must first turn to
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Conference on Homosexuality to Present Truth About
Change
Focus on the Family will present its Love Won Out conference in
Minneapolis Sept. 18 to counter the media-saturating message that
homosexuality is inborn and unchangeable. The one-day event, led
primarily by those who …
http://www.family.org/welcome/press/a0033455.cfm
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Homosexuality by Stanton L. Jones & M.A.
YarhousePaperback: Scientific research about homosexuality has
played a significant role in the church's moral debate. But how can and
should this research be used?
http://www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=2706
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Conference on Homosexuality to Present Truth About
Change
Focus on the Family will bring its Love Won Out conference to Fresno on
Nov. 3, to counter the media-saturating message that homosexuality is
inborn and unchangeable. The one-day event, led primarily by those who
have …
http://www.family.org/welcome/press/a0034044.cfm
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Helping People Step Out of Homosexuality by
Frank WorthenPaperback: There are those struggling with same-sex
attraction who choose not to pursue the gay lifestyle. Here is the help
they've been unable to find.
http://www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=3520
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Coming Out of Homosexuality by Bob Davies
& Lori RentzelPaperback: Are you confused by gay or lesbian desires?
Turn here for a compassionate, biblical view of homosexuality.
http://www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=1671
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Homosexuality
Video: Is homosexuality  like race, sex or ethnicity  an innate and
immutable characteristic?
http://www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=1194
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A Parent's Guide to Preventing Homosexuality
by Joseph Nicolosi & ...Paperback: Uncovered in this groundbreaking
book are the most significant factors that contribute to a child's healthy
gender identity.
http://www.family.org/resources/itempg.cfm?itemid=3442
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Conference on Homosexuality to Present Truth About
Change in LouFocus on the Family will bring its Love Won Out
conference to Louisville on April 16, to counter the media-saturating
message that homosexuality is inborn and unchangeable. The one-day
event is designed to educate and …
http://www.family.org/welcome/press/a0036022.cfm
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Go to this link to access the rest of the 697 articles and resources!
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Please seek to help him!
If you lose him as a friend don't fret. Stubborn hard hearted people will
then learn the hard way and you can do nothing else but to try and help
them see the truth. It is up to them to TURN TOWARD the TRUTH in the
light of the Word of God.
God provides TRUTH ONLY TO THOSE WHO ARE WILLING TO
TAKE HOLD OF IT!
Ask Him to please not deny the truth and go on this journey of
educating yourselves about the Horrible truth of what SODOMY really is
and does to a person! There are far too many more horror
stories about homosexuality than there are happy endings of that kind of
life style! It is not a Christian life style. Don't let the ones who think it is
tell you that lie! If you don't know the truth in the bible you will tend
toward beleiveing lies that are potential towards harm. That is exactly
what the wicked nature of spirit wants. To make people belive lies that
only destroy their character and life. Please. Know that this is a spiritual
battle that is set out to ruin people. You have to know that difference
between good and evil. you have to learn to know that evil comes
disguised as an angel of light and if you don't know the truth in the Words
of what Jesus taught while he was alive, you will not know what the real
truth is. Please, don't disregard until you have learned the Words of
Jesus for yourself. Read it. The new Testament isn't all that long of a
book! Here, listen to it if you are too lazy to read it.
http://www.audio-bible.com/bible/bible.html
If you need help finding where in the New Testament it speaks against the
homosexual fornication. Please ask and we'll help you. or go find it in a
concordance at
http://www.studylight.org just type in the word
fornication and vile practices, use keywords similar to that.
Please let him know it is not the right road to take! And if he does, he will
be making a horrible mistake. God made man for woman and woman for
man! Not for homosexual fornication! Please make him see it is wrong to
turn away from the love of a woman. And same is true for woman to turn
away from the love of a man. They are meant to be together IN the
SPIRIT of love as taught by JESUS. not as taught by the evil spirit of
wicked vile perversion! Please help him see this truth. Tell him you love
him enough for him to see the truth of the wrong doing of that type of life
choice.
Please do try to help him see the truth of it. Do some research together.
Tell him you love him too much to stand by and watch him destroy his life
like that!
Take the straight and narrow road and God will provide.
Take the wide and crooked road, and you will for sure run into the devil
and his wicked ways of things that look good but are not good for you.
Take your pick.
I pray for you both.
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