Wife Fantasizes About High School Crush HELP!!!

[oldscutlass]

Something weird has happened recently with my wife. She has started fantasizing about having her high school crush's babies. I found this on multiple occasions in her journal.

Her crush is married and I believe has a kid or two already now.

I called her out on it and she denies liking the guy, but why would this still show up in her journal?

She also refuses to have anything to do with me in bed of any kind, making up excuses while also belittling my performance there.

She also refuses to seek a counselor, even if I go to one with her. Granted, she has had bad experiences with counseling in the past, but I feel like we are at a point where there is borderline infidelity, if not real adultery in thought.

Meanwhile, I'm in a pleasureless marriage at this point.

HELP!!!!

 

[hawkman]

She also refuses to seek a counselor, even if I go to one with her.

You could pick out the counselor , start going and relay the counselor's advice to your wife . Pray that she will decide to attend counseling with you after that .

 

[oldscutlass]

You could pick out the counselor , start going and relay the counselor's advice to your wife . Pray that she will decide to attend counseling with you after that .

I do have one in mind. I've been hoping to do that and also kind of want to have the sessions online so that she can be around while I do it, but I also don't want to pressure her too much.

I feel like an unwanted substitute for her high school crush.