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I'm not "fishing" for a divorce, if that was the case I would have already done it. As far as bothering people on here, you've been the only hateful negative responder. Why don't you read the entire thread before you respond.Consider this thread dead!!

Apparently you've missed my other posts so I'll give you a quick refresher. We are both Christians, We've been to counseling, a marriage encounter weekend earlier this year, I've been going to counseling for over a year & have told her (the counselor)everything I've put on here. We have been...

I've decided to separate from her starting in January. I parents go to FL every year for 3 months so that is where I'll go. I've done this for the past 2 yrs but not correctly. In 2011 I was only gone 5 days with still contact, in 2012, I was gone 17 but we still saw each other every few...

Hello George & welcome.

I would lean toward God being systematically removed from everything & the world moving closer to a one world government. Obama is really pushing for this. 20 yrs a go, nobody seemed to have a problem with the US being a Christian nation & now everything is deemed offensive???

I have taken that mindset & pray constantly for strength. I've given up on the idea of an "intimate" marriage & I hold no resentment toward my wife. I still treat her like God intended & don't expect anything in return. My only goal is keeping her happy while I suffer in silence.

Me too :)

Really good advice but my wife isn't much for drawn out romancing. I have always & still do treat her with kindness but she has lost her need for intimacy over the years? When we do have sex, it is quick, basic & mostly mechanical. I have tried just kissing & touching & she says "either do it...

I think technology is paving the way for the "mark" but it's not here yet. The Bible makes it clear what the mark will be and mean. It won't be disguised as an implant or microchip etc.

Halloween to me is a time for unselfish giving to others in the form of candy or treats. It always makes me happy to see the kids smile when the candy bar drops into their bag. Most churches do "trunk or treat" from their cars, giving anything from food, clothing, hygiene products etc...

I wonder what his opinion will be when all the youthful girls get pregnant??

She has been a member of a church & doing outreach for a few years. She doesn't want or get much media attention but the most painful thing for her still is her pictures & movies. Because of copyrights etc, she has been legally unsuccessful of shutting her formal sites down. Her story to me...

If you name it, I've tried it. Failing consistently caused too much pain but honestly, I couldn't stay this way for the rest of my life, I'm worth more than that.

I've become numb to our situation & I'm not really miserable anymore. I've adapted, if you don't expect, then you can't be hurt. It isn't what I had hoped for, but most things aren't. I don't complain because it is my choice to still be here & I believe God has a plan.

I don't know if anyone has heard of her. I wrote a hub on her life over at my hubpages. She was a very lucrative porn star making a ton of money who gave it all up for Christ and faced a lot of scrutiny for her decision. It is a good story

I agree that she is not all in emotionally, but our opinions on this vary. Especially in the past 2 yrs with the birth of our grand daughter, our "husband & wife" identity has been lost. Like I said, as long as we get along, then it's a good marriage according to her. Sex, intimacy, personal...

I don't think she believes it to be my fault, just my problem. I'm surviving, I've been seeing my counselor/therapist for a year and she helps me cope.

I pray daily & the reason I'm still there is I feel that God wants me too. She does know how "wrecked" she has made me & feels bad but sees no way to change it. In order to "save" myself, I've had to stifle my emotions & force myself to pull away. She says she is perfectly content with the...

Here are some answers. Yes, we both pray, attend Sunday services every week and feel we have a good relationship with Jesus. She just tends to lean toward the "sex for procreation" camp. She also had her thyroid killed years ago so that doesn't help her libido either. After our last...

Thanks everyone. I played drums in a country band in the late 80's and some of our past band members & I still play in churches or parties, haven't been in bars or clubs in years. I recently took up the bass guitar.