Nikki
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My 7 year old daughter, Kailey has always had a tendency to "daydream". She can't stay focused on anything. She's a VERY smart child (reading and drawing are her strengths), but it doesn't always show because of this. Last year, her teacher would tell me how Kailey would literally find a spot on the wall and just stare at it. She would have to call her name about 7 times to get her to "snap out of it and come back to earth". She does this at home too. TV is the worst. If the tv is on, she'll become so fixated on it that it's all I can do to get her to hear me when I call her. TV doesn't get turned on anymore until EVERYTHING is done.
She's been faking throwing up lately. She'll come out of the bathroom saying she threw up. At first I thought it was drainage from her allergies, but then my hubby and I started realizing she was lying. So we would tell her not to flush it so we could see how much she threw up. Last night, she said she threw up the milk my hubby gave her. He went in the bathroom and the toilet water was cloudy. The thing is, she had ate an entire can of spaghetti-o's right before that milk....like 5 minutes before. There wasn't a speck of red in that water.
She finally admitted last night that she's been lying and she never really throws up. She just spit the milk in the toilet. She cried and cried saying she's having trouble in school.
I just got home from talking with her teacher and Kailey does the same things in school (even faking to throw up. The teacher caught onto that though and just tells Kailey that if she's not running a fever, then she can't leave). The teacher said that Kailey daydreams all the time and can't stay focused. Even when the teacher tries to work one on one with her, it doesn't help. Kailey is very good and fast at reading, but sometimes she'll start reading and a picture in the book will grab her attention and she'll read the same sentence over and over again. I just say to her "Kailey. Kailey. Kailey....what are you doing"? She just looks clueless and then will finally laugh, shake her head and say "Oh!" It was never this bad. It seems to be getting worse as time goes on. The teacher really didn't have any advice and my husband and I are at a loss.
She is very well behaved in school and gets along great with others. She's friendly, funny and extremely caring. It's not like she's out of control or misbehaving. She just can't stay focused on anything.
Any advice? My hubby and I are very concerned and don't know if we should take her to the doctors or what. We don't want her having to be put on medication, but we also don't want her crying every night and being stressed out because she can't focused. We don't know WHAT to do.
I'm afraid that medication would alter her personality.
She's been faking throwing up lately. She'll come out of the bathroom saying she threw up. At first I thought it was drainage from her allergies, but then my hubby and I started realizing she was lying. So we would tell her not to flush it so we could see how much she threw up. Last night, she said she threw up the milk my hubby gave her. He went in the bathroom and the toilet water was cloudy. The thing is, she had ate an entire can of spaghetti-o's right before that milk....like 5 minutes before. There wasn't a speck of red in that water.
She finally admitted last night that she's been lying and she never really throws up. She just spit the milk in the toilet. She cried and cried saying she's having trouble in school.
I just got home from talking with her teacher and Kailey does the same things in school (even faking to throw up. The teacher caught onto that though and just tells Kailey that if she's not running a fever, then she can't leave). The teacher said that Kailey daydreams all the time and can't stay focused. Even when the teacher tries to work one on one with her, it doesn't help. Kailey is very good and fast at reading, but sometimes she'll start reading and a picture in the book will grab her attention and she'll read the same sentence over and over again. I just say to her "Kailey. Kailey. Kailey....what are you doing"? She just looks clueless and then will finally laugh, shake her head and say "Oh!" It was never this bad. It seems to be getting worse as time goes on. The teacher really didn't have any advice and my husband and I are at a loss.
She is very well behaved in school and gets along great with others. She's friendly, funny and extremely caring. It's not like she's out of control or misbehaving. She just can't stay focused on anything.
Any advice? My hubby and I are very concerned and don't know if we should take her to the doctors or what. We don't want her having to be put on medication, but we also don't want her crying every night and being stressed out because she can't focused. We don't know WHAT to do.
I'm afraid that medication would alter her personality.