Girlfriend Problem

[Navigator]

Ya, I have thought about that. Do you think it could be a good thing to work things out though? Couldn't there be a lot of upsides to that too?

But, do remember the next immaturity issue I have with her I will be done with this relationship. I feel like my heart can only handle so much more.

Not necessarily, no. I don't think her getting pregnant from another man could ever produce upsides. It might make you feel good, because you are forgiving her and insisting you want to move on, but I see this being a ticking time bomb. She is so distraught about what she did to you, no matter what you say about forgiving her, she may not forgive herself (in regards to what she did to you); you would always be that constant reminder of her sin. I just don't see that being healthy.

I think like what most people are saying here is spot on...just like the saying goes: "sometimes if you love someone, you have to set them free"

 

[jasoncran]

good advise dora.