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polysci006
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I read through the Is age still a factor... thread, and that seemed more like a general inquiry than a request for advice, so here goes.
I've known and worked with this woman for over a year now (about 14 months, actually) and for the past month and a half or so, we've started talking and have come to realize that we are mutually interested and we do "click," and while we still have a lot to learn about each other, there's still some concern about how her family is going to react to me.
She is 18, a senior in high school, while I am 28, a junior in college (I've been a little slow in figuring out what to do with my life). We're both Christian, so that's not so much of a factor. The two big hurdles we are expecting are the age difference, and the fact that I'm divorced (long story, but the details are here). So, I'm really just wondering how we approach our families about this.
It's not what you might call "serious" yet.. just going out to lunch with groups of mutual friends (we work together), sitting down and chatting with each other when we have time. No kissing or "I love you" exchanges, nothing like that. I'm of a mind to talk to her family now, but she's afraid of how they might react. I know the reaction will be worse if we wait too long, or if they find out from someone else, but she's still reluctant to talk to them. With all of that in mind, some advice on the how and when would be helpful.
I've known and worked with this woman for over a year now (about 14 months, actually) and for the past month and a half or so, we've started talking and have come to realize that we are mutually interested and we do "click," and while we still have a lot to learn about each other, there's still some concern about how her family is going to react to me.
She is 18, a senior in high school, while I am 28, a junior in college (I've been a little slow in figuring out what to do with my life). We're both Christian, so that's not so much of a factor. The two big hurdles we are expecting are the age difference, and the fact that I'm divorced (long story, but the details are here). So, I'm really just wondering how we approach our families about this.
It's not what you might call "serious" yet.. just going out to lunch with groups of mutual friends (we work together), sitting down and chatting with each other when we have time. No kissing or "I love you" exchanges, nothing like that. I'm of a mind to talk to her family now, but she's afraid of how they might react. I know the reaction will be worse if we wait too long, or if they find out from someone else, but she's still reluctant to talk to them. With all of that in mind, some advice on the how and when would be helpful.