My oldest son mentioned as a rebellious teen in an earlier post finally broke down and told me what a big part of the problem was regarding his anger. I have been praying that he would talk to someone about it for a long time. School bullies, they bullied him and other kids along with teachers in his opinion. My son did not like being called stupid for learning issues or being told his Dad was a spaz as I have epilepsy. He named three popular boys who have also been calling girls and female teachers bad sexual words daily in class and in the halls.
While taking him out of school one teacher complained to me about the lack of control he had because of some bad students as he put it. The school did not follow its own policy even when teachers would write up these kids as many as eight times they never got more than in school suspension. This has gone on since last October with multiple victims.
Now the next day after my son asked to be pulled out the superintendent of schools, who is also the co-principal called and accused us as parents of educational neglect. He also accused us of not forcing our son to talk with him or the school counselor, who usually is not there. He was right we saw no point. My son did have the teachers write up the bullies. He told us he only went to school because of two friends and football, that says a lot. We already told him to continue to see friends and to find extra activities that he enjoys where he feels happy and safe.
We had our son talk to law enforcement about the bullies and his desire to fight them to make them stop and to loving christian friends who have mental health training about his hurt and anger and they all feel that he just wants a safer learning environment (they all let him know fighting won't fix anything as did we) and sees it in how we teach his siblings in a flexible loving way.
Thoughts?
While taking him out of school one teacher complained to me about the lack of control he had because of some bad students as he put it. The school did not follow its own policy even when teachers would write up these kids as many as eight times they never got more than in school suspension. This has gone on since last October with multiple victims.
Now the next day after my son asked to be pulled out the superintendent of schools, who is also the co-principal called and accused us as parents of educational neglect. He also accused us of not forcing our son to talk with him or the school counselor, who usually is not there. He was right we saw no point. My son did have the teachers write up the bullies. He told us he only went to school because of two friends and football, that says a lot. We already told him to continue to see friends and to find extra activities that he enjoys where he feels happy and safe.
We had our son talk to law enforcement about the bullies and his desire to fight them to make them stop and to loving christian friends who have mental health training about his hurt and anger and they all feel that he just wants a safer learning environment (they all let him know fighting won't fix anything as did we) and sees it in how we teach his siblings in a flexible loving way.
Thoughts?
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