Exactly, Sister. It is largely...not our business to punish. That's God area of expertise, lol and He's a big boy and does it good.
As an aside, I would be careful about tossing out statements that you can not forgive and things like that. Do you not understand how powerful your words are and that they effect everything and everyone in the world?
When I was finding it hard to forgive my Sons for some bad things they did to me, I would state out loud that I do forgive them, to declare this truth to the universe and God. AN act of my will even though I could not feel forgiveness in my heart in at the time...
Now I do feel it and it is real. That's how it works. Our words and thoughts frame up our future, our heart and who we are and will become.