stepmommy2hg
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Hello everyone. I am new to the forum. I needed a place where I can talk with other christians about things in my life with out having to always defend my faith.
I have an 11year step daughter (SD for short). We have her half the week and her mom the other half. I am a big believer in raising my SD in the way of the Lord. I have been very conflicted with the type of television, movies, and music that my sd has been watching lately. I find myself constantly telling her not to watch something, i.e Gossip Girls. I find it totally wrong and distasteful and disrespectful to God. However, I am wondering how much good it does because I know she will go back to her Mom's and watch/listen to this stuff. I know most of you are like well everyone needs to talk and set the same rules. But SD is very sly about things and her mom is not ontop of things. Also her mom tends to do complete opposite of what I suggest, just to fight. SD's mom has recently become Mormon (about 6 months) So I am hoping when we sit down that I can us the Christian faith with her more. My SD's new favorite band is Blood on the Dance Floor. I was planning on listening to thier songs at work to view them. That was until I looked them up and thier song titles......(I do apologize for the words in the titles)Money and hoes~S my D~well suck me~suicide club. My mouth dropped. There was no way I was listening to these songs at work. I am very upset that SD would even think for one second that these songs are acceptable.
I know this is not really a question but needed to share with other Christians about this situation. I was talking about it at work forgetting they are not Christian. All I got was "oh just let her listen to it." I said , "NO- unacceptable"
Thanks for reading! God Bless
I have an 11year step daughter (SD for short). We have her half the week and her mom the other half. I am a big believer in raising my SD in the way of the Lord. I have been very conflicted with the type of television, movies, and music that my sd has been watching lately. I find myself constantly telling her not to watch something, i.e Gossip Girls. I find it totally wrong and distasteful and disrespectful to God. However, I am wondering how much good it does because I know she will go back to her Mom's and watch/listen to this stuff. I know most of you are like well everyone needs to talk and set the same rules. But SD is very sly about things and her mom is not ontop of things. Also her mom tends to do complete opposite of what I suggest, just to fight. SD's mom has recently become Mormon (about 6 months) So I am hoping when we sit down that I can us the Christian faith with her more. My SD's new favorite band is Blood on the Dance Floor. I was planning on listening to thier songs at work to view them. That was until I looked them up and thier song titles......(I do apologize for the words in the titles)Money and hoes~S my D~well suck me~suicide club. My mouth dropped. There was no way I was listening to these songs at work. I am very upset that SD would even think for one second that these songs are acceptable.
I know this is not really a question but needed to share with other Christians about this situation. I was talking about it at work forgetting they are not Christian. All I got was "oh just let her listen to it." I said , "NO- unacceptable"
Thanks for reading! God Bless