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Are you talking about the Roman Catholic Church, I assume that you must be.
I too am non demominational, I sort of drift around from one to another, as long as they teach the trinity and saved by grace, I am pretty much ok with them.
My friend, you might have to drive more then five miles to go to church, but God doesn't mind. SMILE, the fellowship and corporate worship is very important to God, we know because he said through Paul not to forsake the gathering together, and the fact that God called some be pastors and teachers, must mean he intends for us to go to Church.
you said--Some of the fundamentalists make me want to scream because of the way they preach their get rich with the scripture sermons.
Good decernment, only those aren't fundementalist, they are word of faith teachers, you would do well to stay away from that junk. Check and book called Christianity in crisis. It covers what you are talking about.
Charles Stanley, Kay Arthur, Dr. David Jeremiah, Chuck Swindoll, Kennedy great folks , you are doing well to listen to these guys.
Joyce Meyers, some crflo DollarWoops, part of the word fo faith group, better to turn them off.
Benny Hinn He is right in there with Joyce Meyers, some crflo Dollar.
If you get that book I mentioned, you will see what i am talking about, these guys are teaching flat out heresy, and Benny sheshhhh I can not imagine how so many do not see through that guys, he is totally a false teacher, and scam artist.
Anways, it use seems like you have some pretty good decernment, keep reading the bible, and find a good church, you will be A ok.