I have, and I prayed about it a lot too. ;) I was a single woman with three very young children, and the man who I gave myself to was also being given my children to raise and love like his own...yeah, I thought about it a lot, because he has to be an exceptional guy to be given gifts like these. I mean, this is the person who I am going to submit to, love above all, and support with all that's in me...he has to be God's pick, and God doesn't find anything on that list attractive either. By God's grace I married the wisest person I have ever met, a man who I respect and honor more than anyone else on this planet, and we've been married for three years and in that time not one day has gone by that I have even felt a tinge of regret...my children feel the same way. It's worth thinking about long and hard.
The Lord bless you.