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kemashea
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My husband and I aren't seeing eye to eye on this subject.
My husband wants to wait until we are more financially stable, with a stable job, income and our careers are about to take off. He wants me to do my teaching things a few years before having children and I know he doesn't want to TTC until he has his career job set up.
I understand his want to take care of me and our family. We both grew up in povered homes with little money, so his feeling of need to support is very understandable.
I have had baby fever this past year, and with female problems running in my family, and specialist has told me I may have a *little* Endometriosis or PCOS. I didn't expect him to say PCOS, which REALLY upset me. The doctor wanted me to take BCP, but after taking it for over 3 years I found out it had an abortafaciant in it and stopped. I started taking BCP because of periods and female problems to begin with.
I prayed that God would help us see eye to eye, and my baby fever has subsided(it was driving me CRAZY). I think the baby fever may have been my body telling me something was going on, and the fact that babies are popping up everywhere isn't helping either!
I'm so worried something will happen and I won't be able to get pregnant later.
So I hope you can see my concern...
I'm ready for children, and I have plenty of experience of taking care of those who cannot take care of them selves(waded through crap, puke and changed plenty of nasty diapers!). My husband says he wants to vacation more, do more in life, and get things straightened out with our careers before having children.
So, I am looking for honest BIBLE backing views here. My husband and I (both Christians) have been together for almost 8 years, but only married for 1.5. We are still young (22 &23), but I can say we are more mature than most our age.
I don't want to go to our pastor, I prefer to keep this private. So this is why I am posting this here, I can remain anonymous. I need the views from other Christians and their understanding of the word, because I want the truth. I want to KNOW what God's word says about having children, starting a family. Please refers to verses, so I can look them up too!
You help is VERY appreciated!
Thanks
-Kemashea
My husband wants to wait until we are more financially stable, with a stable job, income and our careers are about to take off. He wants me to do my teaching things a few years before having children and I know he doesn't want to TTC until he has his career job set up.
I understand his want to take care of me and our family. We both grew up in povered homes with little money, so his feeling of need to support is very understandable.
I have had baby fever this past year, and with female problems running in my family, and specialist has told me I may have a *little* Endometriosis or PCOS. I didn't expect him to say PCOS, which REALLY upset me. The doctor wanted me to take BCP, but after taking it for over 3 years I found out it had an abortafaciant in it and stopped. I started taking BCP because of periods and female problems to begin with.
I prayed that God would help us see eye to eye, and my baby fever has subsided(it was driving me CRAZY). I think the baby fever may have been my body telling me something was going on, and the fact that babies are popping up everywhere isn't helping either!
I'm so worried something will happen and I won't be able to get pregnant later.
So I hope you can see my concern...
I'm ready for children, and I have plenty of experience of taking care of those who cannot take care of them selves(waded through crap, puke and changed plenty of nasty diapers!). My husband says he wants to vacation more, do more in life, and get things straightened out with our careers before having children.
So, I am looking for honest BIBLE backing views here. My husband and I (both Christians) have been together for almost 8 years, but only married for 1.5. We are still young (22 &23), but I can say we are more mature than most our age.
I don't want to go to our pastor, I prefer to keep this private. So this is why I am posting this here, I can remain anonymous. I need the views from other Christians and their understanding of the word, because I want the truth. I want to KNOW what God's word says about having children, starting a family. Please refers to verses, so I can look them up too!
You help is VERY appreciated!
Thanks
-Kemashea