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I think God wants me to wait for my dreamgirl, the perfect one. until then he is not allowing me to pursue any relationship. What should I do ? Its like Romeo wait she is not the right one, and he thwarts all good perfect situation, or is it my fault ?
Let me say this, I played a similar game with God. I even had a sign all picked out and I would hope and pray everytime a girl I liked came around, that she would find the sign. These girls were al what I saw as dream girls, but not.
This is not a bad thing to wait until God brings the right woman into your life. The man who find a wife finds a good thing, and it's even better when God does all the looking.
I recommend you spend your time pursuing your own self-improvement (i.e. excercise, intellectual studies, hobbies), this will make you feel better in general.
Don't worry too much about "which girl". What I recommend is not feeling too urgent to tie your feelings to anyone. Love anyone you care about, but don't think about it in a romantic way. That way you won't feel a need to get with them, and if they aren't into you then you won't have lost anything. Then if you find someone who is interested in you, that's half the battle right there.
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