Not really true. I've worked in government (was in the military) and as a contractor since 1998. I watched the shift, mostly when Obama got in office to government telling people they can't say any disagreeable things against LGBTQ's. Then you have the policies implemented by government officials making it hard for people (mostly Christians) to simply practice religious freedom. Now at schools, you risk being put on a list if you speak out too much about LGBTQ policies being implemented and girls and women are attacked as TERFs for speaking up about men who think they're women entering female spaces.
Sure, while you could argue that there's no oligarchy of LGBTQs sitting in Congress and the White House and the Judicial Branch making rules, you have LGBTQ friendlies and activists doing it. So, it's sort of the same thing. While I know there are those who identify themselves as LGBTQ speaking out against this as conservatives, centrists, and whatever, they're in the minority.
Legislation is still being made on LGBTQ behalf to the detriment of other rights.
Most stuff being talked about isn't reasonable. Especially in the schools by grooming teachers, etc. who get angry when parents don't want them talking to their children about sex-related topics. Yes, your sexual orientation is a sex-related topic.
I mostly hear this denial from pro-LGBTQ people, that the school issues and whatnot were/are not a thing and no big deal. I'm not going to link anything here, but you can go on Twitter now, type "drag queen story hour" in the search and look at all of the raunchy videos you'll get with, yes, children present. It is a big deal for parents and it was the parents who started making a big deal about it and some of them were liberal until the schools told them they didn't have a voice because the LGBTQ had more rights than they did as a parent in the schools.
So, I'll agree that part of the larger problem is the activist movement rather than John and Jane Doe LGBTQ individual minding their business and not a frothing at the mouth irrational militant activist spitting angry slurs in people's face for simply disagreeing with their lifestyle. I've met my fair share of nice, reasonable homosexuals and lesbians and had friendly relationships, considered them friends, but they knew where I stand. I have lesbians in my family, cousins, they know where I stand. Sometimes, yes, some of them are frothing at the mouth irrational militant angry activists and I remind them where I stand Biblically.