RobInABQ

I am creative, intelligent, understanding, patient, content, open, silly, playful, unconventional, I love geek culture.

I love studying and discussing the bible, teaching and learning, having deep and intelligent conversations, problem solving, singing worship, playing all types of games, and watching movies and anime. When it comes to activities, I like to try new things, but generally what I enjoy is not what we're doing, but who I'm with.

These are my convictions:

Marriage is about holiness (not happiness; happiness is the byproduct, not the aim), having similar convictions is the most important criteria in a spouse.

A marriage is first about God, second the spouse, and lastly about the self. In this respect, the Word of God must be central to the marriage thru constant and consistent studying. Together.

A married couple must practice James 1:19 which tells us to be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. But this skill needs to be learned before marriage.

The husband's role is to lead, love, and sanctify.
The wife's role is to follow, respect, and help.

God did not give us bodies to be pretty ornaments, but godly instruments. We should strive to develop and maintain our bodies in a way that best serves God. This includes not having sexual contact outside of marriage.

Studying the bible, Hiking/climbing, martial arts, anime/manga, all sorts of games, geek culture