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Presidente and Claudia thanks for the laugh!! I will try this and report back to you guys, lol.

Oh wow. Sounds like she was watching too much housewives of OC. Maybe even a mid life crisis.

Thanks, this helped me a lot. Actually I feel a little better about our situation after I posted this a few dats ago. What a difference a few dats makes!

"Next wife"? I thought you were married.... Speaking in present tense

He he believes women hear other women say stuff like that and they just regurgitate it. He can be very stubborn. If it doesn't make sense to him that my feelings aren't real.

I have to word things just right in order for him not to go off. I can't remember there ever being a time that I criticized him in a disrespectful way. I have told him that I'm thankful he's a good provider. Sad to say I can't think of anything else that he does for me.

Yes, his is touch and quality time. My other one was quality time as well.

Like most husbands my husband is always in the mood, we are not in our twenties anymore but his libido never got that memo. We have read the five love languages and my husband doesn't buy into that fact, that one of my love languages (acts of service) makes me want to be that much more intimate...

Edward, thank you. I appreciate that. As well as the person who pm'd me and the other biblical advice ppl gave. I may not want to hear it, but I know I need to hear it. Asan aside. I think sometimes we as Christians don't truly listen. We are so ready to give good Godly counsel, which is well...

If you only knew half of what I do, what I put up with, but put a smile on my face and go out and help others you would not be judging me this harshly. You see the reason I came here is bc I can't be transparent around my friends and family bc they have NO idea the battle I'm struggling. I'm...

Thanks fir the sound advice, I know you're right but it's hard. He has a short fuse and will snap at me for any and everything. The thing the bothers me the most is when he does it in front of the kids, as he's painting the picture that it's ok for a husband to talk to his wife this way. Then...

We do have sex but so times I feel like that's all I'm good for to him. It's hard to desire it when you don't feel "there" emotionally.

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You feel like you are no longer in love with your spouse? You have good days but the bad days seem to outweigh the good days. Sometimes you think you would be happier getting a divorce, yet you don't want to be a statistic and end up with a broken family and the problems that come with that. I...