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Competition in relationships
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I also would love to know about this.
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I mean competition as in the guys trying to date the girl and they're showing out to impress her. I'm Impressed by physical strength.
citrus
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I've read women should never compete with another woman to gain a man's attention. I agree, but men on the other hand like to be the one who chases. I guess they compete. They are supposed to be a leader in the relationship and mature enough to compete in a healthy way. I don't know.
What? Why? I love it when a woman pursues something with me. It's a very attractive quality.
As for the original question, well, I can't speak for other men, but I know what I like. When I met my best friend's girlfriend for the first time, there was a mutual attraction. I didn't have to win her over, per say. I made her laugh and it was a good time whenever we were together.
So, yeah. Guys can and do compete for women. Women compete with other women for guys, too. The latter can sometimes result in the pulling of hair and gnashing of teeth. Lol.
God created opposite sex. Both man and woman find each other attractive.
Nothing wrong with marriage, Corinthians chapter 7 to document.
James chapter 4
To be friends with the world is to be enemy of God.
Many people don't want to carry their cross daily and follow Jesus. They don't want accountability. Many people are following satan.
James chapter 1. Be doers of the word. Not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.
Play actors who use churches as smoke screen. Its just social function to some people. Some people have no interest in studying the bible. They want shepherds who soft peddle Gods word.
There involved in ways of the world, and turned their backs on God.
Instead of marriage. Its sugar daddy or sexual relations outside of marriage.
Reprobates follow satan.
Romans chapter 6. We're either servant of righteous or servant of sin.
Many of our brothers and sisters are walking in darkness. They made fundamental choice.
Ezekiel chapter 33 . God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked. That they might repent and amend their ways.
Some people wont accept Jesus as their salvation. Some people will follow satan into lake of fire.
Nothing wrong with marriage, Corinthians chapter 7 to document.
James chapter 4
To be friends with the world is to be enemy of God.
Many people don't want to carry their cross daily and follow Jesus. They don't want accountability. Many people are following satan.
James chapter 1. Be doers of the word. Not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.
Play actors who use churches as smoke screen. Its just social function to some people. Some people have no interest in studying the bible. They want shepherds who soft peddle Gods word.
There involved in ways of the world, and turned their backs on God.
Instead of marriage. Its sugar daddy or sexual relations outside of marriage.
Reprobates follow satan.
Romans chapter 6. We're either servant of righteous or servant of sin.
Many of our brothers and sisters are walking in darkness. They made fundamental choice.
Ezekiel chapter 33 . God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked. That they might repent and amend their ways.
Some people wont accept Jesus as their salvation. Some people will follow satan into lake of fire.
citrus
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If I was a man I wouldn't want the one who pulls the ladie's hair out, but unfortunately sometimes those girls when over the man. I just avoid it. I figure if a guy will like me then he will pursue me. On the other hand, I didn't know men liked women making the first move? I have looked at seminars out of curiosity and they all said not to. Huh. I don't know. Maybe it depends on the man. Maybe instead of chasing, flirting ? I don't even know how to flirt. ?
Hey All,
If you find the right guy, you will know what to do citrus. Flirting is effortless when it comes from the heart.
Keep walking everybody.
May God bless,
Taz
It's not always the case. Some guys are shy.
Of course. It saves the guy from having to do it. XD
I find that women flirt physically. Like, if I make a joke, she laughs and grabs my arm. They'll just want to be physically close to the guy they like. I flirt using humor almost exclusively. A big part of the fun for me is making them laugh.
citrus
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I don't like people feeling uncomfortable when they could be getting a chuckle. That is what life is all about. 1 yrs laugh more than adults to the silliest things. It is better than awkward silence and people starring at their toes I'm their seat. I'm introverted so I feel for those class clowns that get into trouble where even the teacher turned her head to laugh. It's good for you
