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sexual fantasies are they ok for the bedroom?? I don't know how some of this works, Like is some stuff prohibited in the bedroom or becuase your married is all allowed? Thoughts?
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I think it would be sin if these fantasies included anyone other than our spouse.
Other than that, Im not sure I know of any scripture that would prohibit the behavior.
Sorry not much help.
YOu could check out this other site called 'the marriage bed'. Im not sure what the exact url is but you could google it Im sure.
Other than that, Im not sure I know of any scripture that would prohibit the behavior.
Sorry not much help.
YOu could check out this other site called 'the marriage bed'. Im not sure what the exact url is but you could google it Im sure.
handy
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I'm a firm believer that if anything isn't prohibited by scripture, and its fully mutual between spouses, then its ok. Fantasy can be a fun part of intimacy between husband and wife, but I definitely agree with Follower, that it cannot be centered upon other people.
sexual fantasies are they ok for the bedroom??
You may want to consider that while a loving heart would be willing to give pleasure to their spouse, there can be a danger to the pursuit of pleasure. It can take a form that elevates self and diminishes the other person. It can also take on a narcotic type characteristic that requires increases in frequency and intensity to produce a desired effect.
Both people should be sensitive to these potential dangers and be willing to forgo anything that causes feelings of discomfort. You wouldn't want to bring alcohol into your marriage if it was going to take one of you into torment. The same is true for other "pleasures".
You may want to consider that while a loving heart would be willing to give pleasure to their spouse, there can be a danger to the pursuit of pleasure. It can take a form that elevates self and diminishes the other person. It can also take on a narcotic type characteristic that requires increases in frequency and intensity to produce a desired effect.
Both people should be sensitive to these potential dangers and be willing to forgo anything that causes feelings of discomfort. You wouldn't want to bring alcohol into your marriage if it was going to take one of you into torment. The same is true for other "pleasures".
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