I’m going to start out on the defense because I know people. If anyone here doesn’t want to respond with the love and compassion of God and wants to shame me for making a mistake, please refrain from responding.
So, I dated this guy for 3.5 months. I’m 47 and he’s 44. He seemed like such a nice guy with direction in his life. Has an amazing testimony and gives all the glory to God for how successful he is now.
After a few dates, he began using very sexual language with me over the phone. I explained my convictions about saving sex for marriage, and he assured me he felt the same way but was just curious about my preferences. I haven't been intimate for almost 7 years, so I was definitely getting very stimulated.
So the next time we saw each other while we were kissing he started putting his hands where they don't belong. I would push his hands away but he was very persistent and I was getting very stimulated. I asked him what about what we discussed and he said as long as we don’t have penetration it’s not fornication. I told him that I don’t agree. So then later on we were kissing again and we wound up doing other things.
The way I see it is that he led me into sin. Felt awful afterward, but he kept telling me not to beat myself up over it. I explain to him that it wasn’t about that, but it was the Holy Spirit grieving. After he finally agreed that we wouldn’t do this anymore I was fine, but eventually it happened again. This created so many trust issues for me. I started questioning how many other women he might have done this with, while he claimed to be a Christian man. So any fooling around we did, didn’t feel special and I felt worse each time it happened.
He advertised our relationship all over the place. Wanted me to meet all his friends and introduced me to his family and his employees. We eventually broke up and he wants things to be amicable between us and have a friendship. I’m playing along, but I want him exposed. He should not be able to get away with this. He thinks he could just lead me into sin and then wipe his hands clean. He says he repented, but I don’t believe him. Anyone that conducts a relationship in that way and can just throw it away without fighting for me when I told him how unhappy I was, definitely did not repent.
I’m wondering how this will unravel and how God will expose him as a charlatan. He has also said on other occasions that he has special favor with God and has zero convictions about masturbation. I want to expose him while not making it obvious?
It does say in God’s Word that he will not be mocked.
Before judging me, please ask questions.
So, I dated this guy for 3.5 months. I’m 47 and he’s 44. He seemed like such a nice guy with direction in his life. Has an amazing testimony and gives all the glory to God for how successful he is now.
After a few dates, he began using very sexual language with me over the phone. I explained my convictions about saving sex for marriage, and he assured me he felt the same way but was just curious about my preferences. I haven't been intimate for almost 7 years, so I was definitely getting very stimulated.
So the next time we saw each other while we were kissing he started putting his hands where they don't belong. I would push his hands away but he was very persistent and I was getting very stimulated. I asked him what about what we discussed and he said as long as we don’t have penetration it’s not fornication. I told him that I don’t agree. So then later on we were kissing again and we wound up doing other things.
The way I see it is that he led me into sin. Felt awful afterward, but he kept telling me not to beat myself up over it. I explain to him that it wasn’t about that, but it was the Holy Spirit grieving. After he finally agreed that we wouldn’t do this anymore I was fine, but eventually it happened again. This created so many trust issues for me. I started questioning how many other women he might have done this with, while he claimed to be a Christian man. So any fooling around we did, didn’t feel special and I felt worse each time it happened.
He advertised our relationship all over the place. Wanted me to meet all his friends and introduced me to his family and his employees. We eventually broke up and he wants things to be amicable between us and have a friendship. I’m playing along, but I want him exposed. He should not be able to get away with this. He thinks he could just lead me into sin and then wipe his hands clean. He says he repented, but I don’t believe him. Anyone that conducts a relationship in that way and can just throw it away without fighting for me when I told him how unhappy I was, definitely did not repent.
I’m wondering how this will unravel and how God will expose him as a charlatan. He has also said on other occasions that he has special favor with God and has zero convictions about masturbation. I want to expose him while not making it obvious?
It does say in God’s Word that he will not be mocked.
Before judging me, please ask questions.
