How do you make Jesus the center of your family?

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Hello all,

Just wondering how you put Jesus first.
It is so easy to get caught up in material and worldly things, just wondering how and in what ways diferent people teach their children to keep God in the center of things.

Prayers, reading the Bible...what other ways.

Thanks and blessings.
 
M&M,

I think that the way we make Jesus the center of our family is that I love Him, and trust Him in front of my children. I protect their eyes, and ears, from the world as much as I am able, but I trust God to protect them ultimately. I teach them of God's love every day, through the Word, our prayers, and a reminder of the fact that their dad is there with Jesus now. I memorize verse with them, and recite those verses at the very times we need them...and when we pray for needs to God our Father. I listen to, and sing, hymns with them on a daily basis, and teach them that God inhabits praise. I teach them morals, and character, now in the way they interact with each other, teaching them to be loving, and kind, first here in our home. I discipline them out of love, and address heart attitude in every matter. I inspire them to stand alone, and look different from this world, and not to love the things in it. I also fill them with rich stories, books of writers of old...like John Bunyan. I also read the Bible, and remind them that it is the only truth, the only Word of God. The Lord bless you.
 
Yes, it's critical to make God a part of your daily life. Whatever we focus on the most in our lives is what will take it over. Better to have God take over than the things of this world.

We read a nightly devotional to our 2 kids at bedtime. Then we ask a couple of questions about it so that they actually have to think about what they've read. Also, their answers help us to know their level of understanding of God, which is also very important.
 
These are all really great ways to introduce your child to Christ too! In raising my daughter, I always try to keep in mind that my main objective is to prepare her to meet God. She is only 2, so we're still on the basics, but I was involved in an 8 week study at our church called Effective Parenting in a Defective World. AMAZING study on this very topic! I think the CD is only like 20 bucks and the workbook was 10. There are so many things in the bible that teach us how to parent our children/bring them to Christ, we just gotta know where to look for them and how to apply! I think you can google the title and see more about it.

At her age, there isn't an array of things we can do like devotionals or discussions about Christ, but we have storytime before bed everynight so I always try to make sure we read some of her children's bible stories along with the others. But for us, the main thing i'm trying to teach her is obedience. Thats the word of the day in my house. How can I ever expect her to obey a God she can't see if she can't even obey me, an authority she can see!

We don't have cable in my house because theres just too much garbage to try and filter through, plus I don't know how many more years I could keep her watching only playhouse disney lol. Its just easier to get rid of it all together and find more productive things to do. But if you do have cable, a great thing to do is when something thats out of sync with your beliefs comes on TV take the time to talk about that with your kids. Like sayyy you're watching a great show, and theres this guy and this girl and they're both in really crappy marriages.. and they fall in love and help eachother escape the pain blah blah.. as you find yourself rooting for them to make it.. pause and have a convo with your kids about the sin/deceit in that situation. It could spawn a really good convo, plus you could get a chance to see how much understanding your kids have.. which is really whats most important. You can have them memorize bible verses all day, and go to church all the time.. but if you aren't hitting the target.. meaning making sure they understand why and the implications.. then its all for nothing

Theres another CD of biblical principles for kids/teens about everyday life in story format called adventures in odyssey. When my daughter gets a little older I think those will be great for her, just as a way to start discussions about how to deal with situations the way Christ would. Also, I play a lot of christian music in the car/at home and its so cute hearing her belting out songs and bible verses from memory without even knowing it! I can't wait until she starts asking questions about what she's singing lol.

But as she grows older, I think the best way I can show her Jesus is the center of our family is by modeling that. Showing her by example. Something to keep in mind is that kids, especially older ones, will do as you do, not as you say! Every morning when she wakes up, I want her to see mom doing her morning devotional so she gets the idea that this is something important. I'm not sure how old your kids are, but definitly family devotionals even as little as once or twice a week are a great way to go. Talk about Christ and how wonderful he is, all the time!

Duet 11:18-22 Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
 
I agree with the posts above. If you model for your kids. They are like little sponges they absorb everything!!! They are super smart and pick up on everyhting. They know if people are really sincere or not. They know if you truly trust in the Lord completly. If you are talking about God, praying with them reading the BIBLE with them, singing christian songs with them, daily interactions, if they do something wrong you remind them how Jesus felt when they did that... and what we do to fix it... ask forgiveness...

anyway, that is my two cents... great posts above
 
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