I want to apologize

[deep'n'dark]

My past behaviour.
Not because I think I should not like universal prinsiples, but because I should not post it here. People should really stop all the negativity and there's lots of it. Our planet needs to wake up, now is the time!

This world is too HARD nowdays, what - is your heart made of stone or something?

 

[Not_Now.Soon]

...... So close. Almost an apology.

My advise. Sometimes people get the modivation to make promises, and then once the promise is made, the modivation to fulfill it is gone. It would have been better to not promise and let the modivation build to a point that they act on it. The same goes with an apology. Often a person apologizes and the modivation to not do it any more is gone with the expression of the apology. Though I think that's rarer then not keeping promises, it's common enough for a phenonom of those who abuse their spouse, apologize and then repeat.

In this case Deep, you were so close to apologizing. But then the action your apologizing for (posting it here), is too quickly ignored, and it's posted about universalism.

Take some time. Let the apology have some time to ferment inside of you, so that it is not so easily discarded after expressing it.

 

[Not_Now.Soon]

The other element is of course whether the apology fits what was done. I might not remember everything you wrote, but I think there was more negativity towards our beliefs then you're apologizing for here. And that is something that should be apologized for posting on this kind of forum.

 

[deep'n'dark]

I only apologize about stuff that I've done wrongly. I didn't get personal with nobody. It seems that I shouldn't have apologized at all.

 

[deep'n'dark]

You should be ashamed!

 

[deep'n'dark]

edited reba

 

[turnorburn]

Uh Oh..

 

[Ph8th]

My heart was made of stone, I hurt people, I took from them because they deserved it if they were stupid enough to trust me to start with. I was just in my actions, if you did not believe I was all you had to do was ask me. I would blame anyone and everyone taking to responsibility for myself.
God forgave me and gave me a new heart. I no longer have a heart of stone. I was given a new heart and God put His spirit in it. Not only did He forgive me He freed me from the person who I used to be. I don't know what or why you would apologize to me. I can forgive you and I do.

peter

 

[deep'n'dark]

Way against the TOS.

 

[Not_Now.Soon]

I only apologize about stuff that I've done wrongly. I didn't get personal with nobody. It seems that I shouldn't have apologized at all.

Again, Deep. If you really did feel sorry, take time with that to let it seed into your heart. If a person is really sorry for something they've done, that focus should be greater then the ramifications of other people's reactions. It hurts when a person doesn't accept your apology. But if you really meant it the apology would be stronger then the hurt.

If I hurt you for not accepting your apology, I'm sorry for hurting you. But it didn't seem like you really meant it. Still doesn't. Don't get mad. Take the advise I gave.

 

[evenifigoalone]

Well you have the right to believe as you see fit. The thing is we have limits on what content we allow to be promoted. This site is, in a sense, a safe place for Christians, where they can be encouraged and learn from fellow believers. There are plenty of places where other ideologies and religions can be discussed. Intellectually, I do not believe we should never question our views. But I do see value in having a a safe space/community of believers to talk to. No one needs to align with Christianity to post here, we only ask that our rules be respected.