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is the sinners prayer always effective?

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as pastors we can say to the responded sinners: repeat after me.... and after the prayer we say, you are saved because you've confessed Jesus as your lord with your mouth (Rom10). but the nxt day that person is back drinking beer again. we have to ask ourselves these questions because ignorance is a awful thing. we can be filling our churches with shallow conversions and in the end they can even become opponents of the work because the natural man doesn't understand the spiritual things. I think even some of the church leaders are not yet born again. im not saying the sinners prayer is wrong but I think we need to apply it at the right moment. 2cor7:10. if there is no faith in the heart yet you can confess all you want but there will not be any change. whats your opinion?
 
How is this a question or suggestion for CF.net staff? Perhaps this would be a better discussion for the entire membership in one of the public forums.
 
Oh, for cryin' out loud. Do you actually think saying some prayer saves a person? I won't even go into the foolishness of judging someone because they "are right back drinking beer again". (As if drinking beer was a sin!) You still sin, and so do I.... and everyone on this forum.
But I WILL pray for those you might happen to influence, if you are a pastor.
 
Oh, for cryin' out loud. Do you actually think saying some prayer saves a person? I won't even go into the foolishness of judging someone because they "are right back drinking beer again". (As if drinking beer was a sin!) You still sin, and so do I.... and everyone on this forum.
But I WILL pray for those you might happen to influence, if you are a pastor.
Let's try not to be too hard on our new members. I think he agrees with you that just reciting someone else's memorized prayer doesn't save someone. It has to come from the heart, otherwise it's no better than a pagan incantation. As for the beer drinking part, I took that to mean more along the line of drunkenness and an example of willful continuation in sin, not just having a beer with friends. Of course, when churchwithoutwalls comes back online, I'm sure he will clarify all this. Lets see what he has to say.
 
OK. But, after a dozen, or so, posts, I hope the exclusionary list of behaviors he considers to be "sins" doesn't keep getting longer.
 
as pastors we can say to the responded sinners: repeat after me.... and after the prayer we say, you are saved because you've confessed Jesus as your lord with your mouth (Rom10). but the nxt day that person is back drinking beer again. we have to ask ourselves these questions because ignorance is a awful thing. we can be filling our churches with shallow conversions and in the end they can even become opponents of the work because the natural man doesn't understand the spiritual things. I think even some of the church leaders are not yet born again. im not saying the sinners prayer is wrong but I think we need to apply it at the right moment. 2cor7:10. if there is no faith in the heart yet you can confess all you want but there will not be any change. whats your opinion?
In having worked in a Prison Ministry and having spent 14 years, seeking to minister to and for the sake of the Lost, I have seen somewhere north of 600 Confessions of Faith and I, honestly believe one or two of them were real. I learned, early on, that we must never worry about the numbers, that is our LORD's province and we need to leave it in His hands.

I have grave concerns about the state of the Church today and based on a survey taken in the mid-eighties by the Barna Group, I understand why my soul is so troubled about our Churches. They surveyed all denominations and the survey was double blind that the answers might be as honest as one might get. The questions I was told were all basic and along the line of, "Do you believe in the Virgin Birth, Do you believe Jesus died for your sins to be covered, Do you believe Jesus is returning to take you to heaven?"

The survey was taken by, only, the faithful, as defined by their attendance at meetings no less than three times a week. My experience, since January 1990, my conversion, is that these are, largely the churches workers and according to what I read, composed from 10 to 15 percent of the membership. Of small group less than 10% believed the basic tenants of the faith, according to the answers on the papers. Because I know folks, I will suggest that even though the survey was never to be seen by the Pastors and there were no names or ID markings on the paperwork, some of them lied. If I translate this out into the membership I have been convinced that, perhaps, less than two percent of the Church Membership are saved.

I once heard a teacher say that if the rapture were to occur on Saturday Night, at Midnight, Sunday Morning there would not be enough difference for most people to notice with only one or two teachers missing. that, of course, must include the Pastoral Staff.

But the thing is, they are in the right place.
 
whats your opinion?
as pastors we can say to the responded sinners: repeat after me.... and after the prayer we say, you are saved because you've confessed Jesus as your lord with your mouth

My opinion is that pastors and ministers that operate in this manner are sending many people to their doom.
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OK. But, after a dozen, or so, posts, I hope the exclusionary list of behaviors he considers to be "sins" doesn't keep getting longer.
Oh me too, of course! But today is his very first day with us. Lets not be too quick to judge him while he's still learning his way around the forum!
 
Oh me too, of course! But today is his very first day with us. Lets not be too quick to judge him while he's still learning his way around the forum!
Sorry. I should have been a little kinder. It's just that after living for almost 70 years, and seeing the effects of this kind of "church" hundreds and hundreds of times, it becomes a little difficult to hear the same old rhetoric being shoveled even one more time.
 
Staff believes this thread would be a better fit in the lounge so here it is :biggrin
 
Saying a sinner's prayer will not accomplish anything on its own.It is simply a way of declaring to God that you are relying on Jesus Christ as your Savior.There are no magical words that result in salvation.It is only faith in Jesus Christ.
Here is a sinners prayer:

"God, I know that I am a sinner. I know that I deserve the consequences of my sin. However, I am trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior. I believe that His death and resurrection provided for my forgiveness. I trust in Jesus and Jesus alone as my personal Lord and Savior. Thank you Lord, for saving me and forgiving me! Amen!"
http://www.gotquestions.org/sinners-prayer.html#ixzz38K0WrQfI
 
I believe what saves is not speaking the words by themselves but coming to the realization of what those words truly mean and speaking them from the heart and mind and mouth.

This has been a concern of mine in our church services. As we grow we reach a point when it is decided that we are ready for our first communion. But how do we determine this? By age or completing X number of years of Sunday School or Bible study? Do our young people truly know what it is they are doing when they take that step? What about Confirmation? Is it just a day of passage? Do the confirmants truly realize what they are doing on that day is confirming that which was done at their baptism? Does the congregation truly recognize and understand what is going on or are they just happy witnesses to their children being the center of attention for a few moments? Same is true of marriage. In all of these ceremonies the pastor reads some words from a book and then tells the respondents how to respond. Do they truly believe it or are they just going through the motions, mouthing the words, and following the instructions presented before them?

It was this concern that was very influential for me leaving the Catholic church when I was in my early 20's. Growing up I was never taught how to talk to God or even that I could. Prayers were nothing more than memorized words and phrases that we repeated over and over and over. I can't begin to count the hours I spent on my knees reciting the words we called prayers of the Rosary. Even the Lord's prayer became this for me. Our Sunday liturgy became a weekly repeated process that we did out of duty. When we say the sinner's prayer or any prayer it must be far more than just the words being spoken. It absolutely must come from the heart with truth and meaning. If I tell someone I'm sorry without meaning it from my heart, I have only wasted my time and theirs and quite frankly I have insulted them in doing so.

Just my :twocents
 
I believe what saves is not speaking the words by themselves but coming to the realization of what those words truly mean and speaking them from the heart and mind and mouth.

This has been a concern of mine in our church services. As we grow we reach a point when it is decided that we are ready for our first communion. But how do we determine this? By age or completing X number of years of Sunday School or Bible study? Do our young people truly know what it is they are doing when they take that step? What about Confirmation? Is it just a day of passage? Do the confirmants truly realize what they are doing on that day is confirming that which was done at their baptism? Does the congregation truly recognize and understand what is going on or are they just happy witnesses to their children being the center of attention for a few moments? Same is true of marriage. In all of these ceremonies the pastor reads some words from a book and then tells the respondents how to respond. Do they truly believe it or are they just going through the motions, mouthing the words, and following the instructions presented before them?

It was this concern that was very influential for me leaving the Catholic church when I was in my early 20's. Growing up I was never taught how to talk to God or even that I could. Prayers were nothing more than memorized words and phrases that we repeated over and over and over. I can't begin to count the hours I spent on my knees reciting the words we called prayers of the Rosary. Even the Lord's prayer became this for me. Our Sunday liturgy became a weekly repeated process that we did out of duty. When we say the sinner's prayer or any prayer it must be far more than just the words being spoken. It absolutely must come from the heart with truth and meaning. If I tell someone I'm sorry without meaning it from my heart, I have only wasted my time and theirs and quite frankly I have insulted them in doing so.

Just my :twocents
I totally agree but I would not touch this with a 10 ft pole because we get in trouble for talking about the RCC.
 
I totally agree but I would not touch this with a 10 ft pole because we get in trouble for talking about the RCC.
There's nothing to touch. It's not about the RCC. It's about faith and applies to every denomination. I only mention RCC as a point of my own experience. The rest of my post is from my experience in the Lutheran Church I currently attend.
 
There's nothing to touch. It's not about the RCC. It's about faith and applies to every denomination. I only mention RCC as a point of my own experience. The rest of my post is from my experience in the Lutheran Church I currently attend.
I belonged to the Lutheran Church for many years.Not impressed.
 
I think this is a important discussion. because many pastors and evangelists are making those 'repeat after me altar calls', and maybe a lot of the people will not be really saved (no fruits of repentance) but now the problem is that those people might think they are saved. (and will stop searching for salvation) at the end of their lives they will hear Jesus say:'i never knew you'. I am not here to point fingers or to judge. I am doing this to help, opening eyes so in the end we can bring more of our beloved brothers and sisters to heaven. I think the real evidence of being born again is when the Holy Spirit convinces you from within that you are a child of God. Rom8:16. So as disciples of Christ we may always encourage believers to look for that insurance. God bless
 
Kathi said:
I belonged to the Lutheran Church for many years.Not impressed.
The thing is, we don't belong to a church simply because it impresses us or at least we shouldn't. I am a little hesitant about a church that seeks to impress because we are easily impressed by worldly things more so than Godly things. This is where the prosperity preachers can gain such popularity. They sell what we want to hear and that does not always mean they are preaching the truth.

I think this is a important discussion. because many pastors and evangelists are making those 'repeat after me altar calls', and maybe a lot of the people will not be really saved (no fruits of repentance) but now the problem is that those people might think they are saved. (and will stop searching for salvation) at the end of their lives they will hear Jesus say:'i never knew you'. I am not here to point fingers or to judge. I am doing this to help, opening eyes so in the end we can bring more of our beloved brothers and sisters to heaven. I think the real evidence of being born again is when the Holy Spirit convinces you from within that you are a child of God. Rom8:16. So as disciples of Christ we may always encourage believers to look for that insurance. God bless
This kind of points to what I've been trying to say. We are so in tuned with our rituals and traditions. I teach the high school Sunday school at our church and one of the things I try hard to get across to my students is the realness of God. I try to help Jesus come to life for them. I try to help them understand that it is not about reaching a certain point of accomplishment in one's life. After all, we can't earn our salvation by accomplishing certain tasks. What is discouraging for me is when I have students that attend our weekly classes regularly until they are confirmed. Then suddenly they disappear. It's as if they graduated or something and now have completed their journey when in reality it is only beginning.

With regard to the sinner's prayer, convincing someone to recite the prayer in some ways seems to go away from the message Jesus gave us in Matthew 6:6.
But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.

I'm not saying that some are not saved by this public act but I often wonder if many are deceived into thinking that the words themselves have some power to save. The prayer is powerless unless it comes from the heart and if it comes from the heart, shouldn't the words too come from the heart?

Let me put it this way. Suppose I do you wrong and later I come to you to apologize. I bring another friend with me and this friend dictates to me the words I say to you. Or suppose I come to you in humility with a sorrowful heart, realizing my error and how I've hurt you and give you my apology directly from my heart. Which apology would carry the correct message to you?
 
The thing is, we don't belong to a church simply because it impresses us or at least we shouldn't. I am a little hesitant about a church that seeks to impress because we are easily impressed by worldly things more so than Godly things. This is where the prosperity preachers can gain such popularity. They sell what we want to hear and that does not always mean they are preaching the truth.


This kind of points to what I've been trying to say. We are so in tuned with our rituals and traditions. I teach the high school Sunday school at our church and one of the things I try hard to get across to my students is the realness of God. I try to help Jesus come to life for them. I try to help them understand that it is not about reaching a certain point of accomplishment in one's life. After all, we can't earn our salvation by accomplishing certain tasks. What is discouraging for me is when I have students that attend our weekly classes regularly until they are confirmed. Then suddenly they disappear. It's as if they graduated or something and now have completed their journey when in reality it is only beginning.

With regard to the sinner's prayer, convincing someone to recite the prayer in some ways seems to go away from the message Jesus gave us in Matthew 6:6.
But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.

I'm not saying that some are not saved by this public act but I often wonder if many are deceived into thinking that the words themselves have some power to save. The prayer is powerless unless it comes from the heart and if it comes from the heart, shouldn't the words too come from the heart?

Let me put it this way. Suppose I do you wrong and later I come to you to apologize. I bring another friend with me and this friend dictates to me the words I say to you. Or suppose I come to you in humility with a sorrowful heart, realizing my error and how I've hurt you and give you my apology directly from my heart. Which apology would carry the correct message to you?
We belong to a Church so we can fellowship with those who do the same.We also go to a Church to get to know God better.If either of these things are not fruitful what is the purpose?
 
We belong to a Church so we can fellowship with those who do the same.We also go to a Church to get to know God better.If either of these things are not fruitful what is the purpose?
Agreed. I understand being impressed as something a little different....more worldly.
 
Agreed. I understand being impressed as something a little different....more worldly.
There are many things,people and places I am not impressed with in this life.Or may I say I am disappointed in.



 
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